Cause she told me to.
1. Leave me a comment saying, "Interview me."
2. I respond by asking you five personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. You respond with answers in the comments.
4. Then post this in your journal and interview your friends.
2. I respond by asking you five personal questions so I can get to know you better.
3. You respond with answers in the comments.
4. Then post this in your journal and interview your friends.
My older sisters know. Lydia doesnt blink an eye, however she is in a FT D/s relationship with a transgendered (post op) lesbian. Trudy tried to call me out numerous times during our Geneva camping trip. I dodged. She knows, we don't ask difficult questions. Much of my family has met him. We haven't said anything out right; the Williams are very much a dont ask/don't tell family. The Williams were very happy I got married so I have a cover for my weirdness. They were betting Lesbian Hippie commune in up state new york for me before then. I have met both sets of his parents. They know I am married to Dan. they don't ask. His dad knows that Mu and I are intimate but hasn't asked any difficult questions.
2. What is one dynamic that you would change about your life, other than financial issues?
My health. I would not to be allergic to anything. I would love to be able to incinerate my inhaler. I could throw away the Benedryl.
3. What did you want to be when you grew up?
At 9 I wanted to be a nun and a vet. When I was in High School I wanted to be a professor, working my way to the head of the Chemistry Dept of Pensylvania University. For the record... I NEVER WANTED TO BE DAMN DOCTOR!!!! (MD that is I did want a PhD) That was my most HATED question growing up.. "Are you going to be a doctor like your Mommy, little girl?" No no and NO
4. Why do you think the campus crowd.. of at least yesteryear, was so drama ridden? :)
I think that the period of life between the ages of 18 and 22 is drama ridden. It is a very dangerous, exciting time; so many things about growing into an adult pull people in different directions. Every little detail is stark and blinding. Many of us were in the scary position of learning how to support ourselves. The prospect of becoming parents. Friends passing away. Aquaintances going to jail for murder. We were learning boundaries on adult socialization. Many people in that crowd came from very differnt backgrounds. Many of us were faced with traumas we've never experienced before. Some were running from reality. Some were looking for it not knowing they were in the middle of it. High emotions and not knowing how to properly deal with them lead to behavior that maybe wasn't teh most "adult". The drug use pro'ly didn't help either.
5. Did/Do you want children?
Umm.. At 30 the "mommy pangs" or Biological clock is ticking very loudly. I dont think I am genetically fit to breed. Too many health problems. It wouldnt be fair or ethical of me to breed.
Both my boys at some point want children. I am not opposed to raising children. I haven't figured out a way for this to happen yet. So, for now.. no.
But I dont know, hormones may make me do something stupid. I am not sure yet, how's that.
It's a huge decision and it terrifies me even though I am 90% sure that I do not want to have children. There is some doubt there still.
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Courtney doesnt know anything and hasn't met Mu. Sara and Bruce know he's a friend. My Aunt's on my Dad's side know him as a Rommate.
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