Aug 30, 2005 14:47
The realization of faults within this world has made some, like myself wonder what this whole world is really about. Is it really about how people see you or is it about how we see ourselves? Do we as people of society have true individuality? Are we "real" in out actions? Are we truly unique?
Simple human emotions can be shown in a smile; how you interpret that single smile depends on your personality or your mental clarity. How you treat people can affect them for the rest of their lives. A simple comment can make or break a person. Watch what you say and the tone that you say it in. You may not always mean it the way it sounds. Be real in you actions, as well as your feelings. Be true to yourself as well as others. When in doubt, never give up. There is always hope even if you can't seem to see a better day. Why do we act like we do? Why do we fall in love like we do? Why does it hurt when we "get our hearts broken"? Doesn't a broken heart continue to beat? Why are women more susceptible to getting hurt in a relationship? Why is it that most of us endure pain for something that’s suppose to be mutual? To love and understand someone takes effort. Without the willingness to learn about someone or something you can't truly understand it. So why waste precious time dealing with petty nonsense? Why do we waste our time with relationships that we know won't work? Not only does it waste your time but it also wastes the other person's time that’s in the so-called "relationship."
In life, time is of the essence but why waste that essence if your not truly in love? Why take that risk of getting hurt or being used or maybe even worse. Why spend time with people that you know your not going to spend the rest of your life with? Is our pain self-inflicted? Do other cause our pain and insecurities?
As people we are all given a certain time to live out our lives, wether we do it or not is all up to us. We find in life that we don’t always get what we want and most of the time if we do we aren’t satisfied with it. In fact no matter what happens to us be it good or bad we are never satisfied with what we have. Maybe its just human nature to be unhappy or maybe we are just so selfish that we can’t see the real reason we are here on earth. Those that live life fall in love, get married, have children, or do whatever it is that’s in them to do with their lives. I think that to often people give up on things that they really want and settle for what than can get, instead of going after what we really want.
When people are presented with something that they aren’t particularly happy with they tend to do things to make everything a big mess instead of doing it anyway. You have to take what you are given even if it isn’t the greatest thing. I also think that it takes people way to long to figure out what they really want. An even when we do figure out what we want its often to late. Don’t wait til its to late.