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I am pondering what to put in this post as I know I'll probably get in trouble for it and J will make me remove it
Mehs.
The reasons I don't go well with men:
I believe that a woman should be able to refuse something and not be forced into it or given a guilt trip.
I believe that if a guy hurts you something should happen to him
I believe that if you tell a guy to stop they should.
I think that could all be summed up as men should respect women a lot more...
They shouldn't just expect her to give up everything while he keeps everything.
He shouldn't be able to fool around with other women while the relationship is going downhill (men do it as if it will mend the relationship and even if it doesn't they are set up for the next one or they have a good story to tell their mates) I admit some women probably do this too (a friend I went to school viewed it this way hence why it is written like that) I think that's also wrong.
In a relationship you never stop changing and adapting - that is a good thing, if you stop it usually ends (like the fact I can't get rid of my jealousy that I have had since I first heard of her)
I think wo/men need to be less jealous as that just tears things apart (pity it's easier said then done)
I think problems need to be talked about rather then letting them manifest.
I think both people should be viewed as equal.
I think if someone is in pain everything should be done to help them.
I think sex should be for the other person more then yourself.
Needless to say there will never be anyone who is that person. heh. I love impossible thoughts, they keep me amused and busy writing them.
Mehs.
The reasons I don't go well with men:
I believe that a woman should be able to refuse something and not be forced into it or given a guilt trip.
I believe that if a guy hurts you something should happen to him
I believe that if you tell a guy to stop they should.
I think that could all be summed up as men should respect women a lot more...
They shouldn't just expect her to give up everything while he keeps everything.
He shouldn't be able to fool around with other women while the relationship is going downhill (men do it as if it will mend the relationship and even if it doesn't they are set up for the next one or they have a good story to tell their mates) I admit some women probably do this too (a friend I went to school viewed it this way hence why it is written like that) I think that's also wrong.
In a relationship you never stop changing and adapting - that is a good thing, if you stop it usually ends (like the fact I can't get rid of my jealousy that I have had since I first heard of her)
I think wo/men need to be less jealous as that just tears things apart (pity it's easier said then done)
I think problems need to be talked about rather then letting them manifest.
I think both people should be viewed as equal.
I think if someone is in pain everything should be done to help them.
I think sex should be for the other person more then yourself.
Needless to say there will never be anyone who is that person. heh. I love impossible thoughts, they keep me amused and busy writing them.