take one for the team
my mom asked me today why i hate her. she's asked me in the past this question and i've always simply denied it or given her some lame exscuse.
but today i was able to articulate my real feelings, a small victory for myself.
i told her i always acted annoyed with her because i saw myself in her, the parts that i dont like about myself, and that is why i am consistiantly agitated with her. so its not really her its myself that i am agitated with.
then we talked about how we both have similar problems and how we may correct them together. there is hope for now.
but today i was able to articulate my real feelings, a small victory for myself.
i told her i always acted annoyed with her because i saw myself in her, the parts that i dont like about myself, and that is why i am consistiantly agitated with her. so its not really her its myself that i am agitated with.
then we talked about how we both have similar problems and how we may correct them together. there is hope for now.