Birthdays and Drama
First off...Time to wish my baby a Happy Birthday! He's 26 today! I'm happy for him but I know he's not very happy. Angel seems to think that he's like grampa old now. *rolls eyes* Whatever...he still looks sexy to me! We got over our differences last week and we're doing ok now. I also got him a Playstation 3 for his birthday that's on the way. At least I hope it is anyway... Everything is ok over here.
Now...onward to the drama part of my day. NO, it's not about me and Angel in the least, like I said, we're ok. It's about my friend Anne and the asshole she's dating. Anne and Jose (the asshole) both work with me. Anne is pretty cool and one of the only people I like hanging out with at work. But she also has a pretty complicated life too. Separation with her husband and a single mom taking care of 2 girls; one of them being a teenager. So she has a lot on her plate anyway. Jose...man, there really isn't anything positive I could say about him other than he sometimes has some sort of humor. Other than that, I can't stand him. He's an arrogant asshole that seems to think the world revolves around him. I'm sorry, arrogance isn't high on my list. Even my cousin makes me retch a bit with his cockiness.
Anyway, Anne seems to think the world of him and they have been dating for a little bit. However, from what I know and what she tells me...they are not exclusive. So today as I'm pushing a bed back to a room she comes to me and says. "Ah, man...now he's mad at me." I was confused and she says "He saw a text on my phone." I immediately pushed the brakes on that one *insert brake sound* I was like WTF? "What was he doing on your phone?" She shrugs and I leave her to do my job all the while stunned.
Later one I go back to her and ask her what happened. Anne told me that Jose told her that he saw the text because her phone had fallen. Excuse me a sec...
WHAT A LOAD OF BULLSHIT!
Phew..I'm glad I got that off my chest. But still a load of bullshit. I couldn't believe my ears. No...that phone didn't fall. Jose was sneaky one. If the phone fell, how the hell did it get on the text that she had. It wouldn't just pop up. That punk would have had to push a button. So, because of his insecurities, he had the nerve to be all in Anne's business and had the nerve to be mad at her.
Now, this may be just me..but if we were going out and you didn't say to me "hey we're boyfriend and girlfriend" or that we were exclusive, then I'm free to do whatever the hell I wish. That means stay the hell out of my business and stay the fuck out of my phone. That's my phone! I bought it, not you and you don't get in it. Period.
Anybody else feel that way? What do you think Anne should do about this? I told her that she needs to see it as a warning sign and take a break from him. Not because I want to break her up, but what if it goes to something else? I just think she needs to think really hard about being with Jose. She doesn't need to get hurt more.
Amazing how love is nowadays.
Now...onward to the drama part of my day. NO, it's not about me and Angel in the least, like I said, we're ok. It's about my friend Anne and the asshole she's dating. Anne and Jose (the asshole) both work with me. Anne is pretty cool and one of the only people I like hanging out with at work. But she also has a pretty complicated life too. Separation with her husband and a single mom taking care of 2 girls; one of them being a teenager. So she has a lot on her plate anyway. Jose...man, there really isn't anything positive I could say about him other than he sometimes has some sort of humor. Other than that, I can't stand him. He's an arrogant asshole that seems to think the world revolves around him. I'm sorry, arrogance isn't high on my list. Even my cousin makes me retch a bit with his cockiness.
Anyway, Anne seems to think the world of him and they have been dating for a little bit. However, from what I know and what she tells me...they are not exclusive. So today as I'm pushing a bed back to a room she comes to me and says. "Ah, man...now he's mad at me." I was confused and she says "He saw a text on my phone." I immediately pushed the brakes on that one *insert brake sound* I was like WTF? "What was he doing on your phone?" She shrugs and I leave her to do my job all the while stunned.
Later one I go back to her and ask her what happened. Anne told me that Jose told her that he saw the text because her phone had fallen. Excuse me a sec...
WHAT A LOAD OF BULLSHIT!
Phew..I'm glad I got that off my chest. But still a load of bullshit. I couldn't believe my ears. No...that phone didn't fall. Jose was sneaky one. If the phone fell, how the hell did it get on the text that she had. It wouldn't just pop up. That punk would have had to push a button. So, because of his insecurities, he had the nerve to be all in Anne's business and had the nerve to be mad at her.
Now, this may be just me..but if we were going out and you didn't say to me "hey we're boyfriend and girlfriend" or that we were exclusive, then I'm free to do whatever the hell I wish. That means stay the hell out of my business and stay the fuck out of my phone. That's my phone! I bought it, not you and you don't get in it. Period.
Anybody else feel that way? What do you think Anne should do about this? I told her that she needs to see it as a warning sign and take a break from him. Not because I want to break her up, but what if it goes to something else? I just think she needs to think really hard about being with Jose. She doesn't need to get hurt more.
Amazing how love is nowadays.