mara saves the day again!!!
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:24:37 AM): if rob called you up today- told you he loves you and wants you back- what would you do?
Marzie1629 (9:25:38 AM): well he did call me yesterday lol well..um....i still wouldn't go back with him bc i was the one that broke up with him..i love him but im not in love with him but i know that there would be a chance that i would have sex with him but not go back with him
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:26:07 AM): would u ever let yourself fall back in love with him?
Marzie1629 (9:27:25 AM): if it happened it would happen but he was my past i would have to move on to my future....i mean there could be a chance that i could love him but i dont think that would happen...since i broke up with him i was the one that fell out of love not him AND he would say that bc he has preggo over there to love him and keep him company
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:03 AM): ha ha
Marzie1629 (9:28:07 AM): lol
Marzie1629 (9:28:14 AM): y did adam say something
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:29 AM): oh adams been saying how much he wants me back since we broke up.
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:53 AM): sent me flowers. came over to my house with a cake- cuz its a joke cuz of the napoleon dynamite movie- and yah
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:29:10 AM): i just had a dream last night that adam moved on finally and i was crying and wanting him back.
Marzie1629 (9:30:04 AM): trust me it hurts like hell when the one u spent more of your life with is now with someone else who loves him but i mean u guys did break up for a reason ya know? and if that reason wasnt strong enough u wouldnt have broken up
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:30:39 AM): but sometimes you dont get second chances on love like that?
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:30:56 AM): i mean sometimes you miss out on things because of the little fights
Marzie1629 (9:32:16 AM): u r only 20 trust me yes u do....i didnt think that when rob found someone else bc he was head over heels for me and now...hes not AT ALL. i miss him sometimes.....most times but i know that breaking up was the best thing to do bc being in a relationship and always fighting is something u DONT DO even though u love eachother u have to figure out if u wanna fight the rest of your life or find someone that u will only fight with a couple times
Marzie1629 (9:32:24 AM): bc everyone fights but not every second
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:32:49 AM): right
Marzie1629 (9:33:13 AM): and i know that u were unhappy a lot of the time bc of your fights
Marzie1629 (9:34:22 AM): u guys have been together a long time u should see what else is out there and if he does find someone...yes it will feel like he took your heart out and smashed it to pieces but trust me some guy will come along again and love u....i mean come on u were in love with mark then u guys broke up then u found adam now that adam and u broke up some other guy could come around
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:34:25 AM): but at the same time i was the happiest i had been
Marzie1629 (9:34:36 AM): fighting all the time?
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:34:49 AM): no not fighting
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:35:36 AM): im just scared thats all
Marzie1629 (9:36:43 AM): when rob likes jill for a lil i wanted him back and went back with him.....a WHILE AGO bc i thought i was going to lose him....we stayed together 2 weeks thats it
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:37:13 AM): but i mean arnt you glad u tried things again so you KNEW for sure that it was over?
Marzie1629 (9:41:28 AM): yes i did but u guys have done that before...gotten back together ya know? i mean if u wanna try it again then do it bc it will show u that he isnt the one....and trust me like this past week i actually made myself think that i wanted rob again but over the weekend my family made me realize that if i was truly in love with him i wouldnt of let him go in the first place and thats true i wouldnt of...i do love him bc he will always bc a part of my life he was my first "partner" and my first like real love other then adam and it hurts so much that he found someone else to love and basically forgot about me but i just am looking to find someone else so it doesnt hurt as much....and the worst thing is that when he was with jill he would say he wanted me back and he was in love with me but now he told me he is 100% in love with her and now apparently im gone
Marzie1629 (9:41:49 AM): but i gtg to class ill be back and we will talk about it
Marzie1629 (9:43:58 AM): dont worry u will realize that someone else will make u happier but try it out then if u feel that ur love will stay alive then GREAT but if u break up again u will just be sad all over again
((she clears and eases my mind))
this all came up because of this dream i had. i woke up crying from it. i had a dream adam moved on... and took me to this party and then got head from some other girl- told me all about it and then basically asked me to get out of his life. and i started begging for him to come back.
you know theres somethings you wont get over, but time heals all wounds. so does a helping hand and encouraging words.
Marzie1629 (9:25:38 AM): well he did call me yesterday lol well..um....i still wouldn't go back with him bc i was the one that broke up with him..i love him but im not in love with him but i know that there would be a chance that i would have sex with him but not go back with him
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:26:07 AM): would u ever let yourself fall back in love with him?
Marzie1629 (9:27:25 AM): if it happened it would happen but he was my past i would have to move on to my future....i mean there could be a chance that i could love him but i dont think that would happen...since i broke up with him i was the one that fell out of love not him AND he would say that bc he has preggo over there to love him and keep him company
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:03 AM): ha ha
Marzie1629 (9:28:07 AM): lol
Marzie1629 (9:28:14 AM): y did adam say something
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:29 AM): oh adams been saying how much he wants me back since we broke up.
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:28:53 AM): sent me flowers. came over to my house with a cake- cuz its a joke cuz of the napoleon dynamite movie- and yah
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:29:10 AM): i just had a dream last night that adam moved on finally and i was crying and wanting him back.
Marzie1629 (9:30:04 AM): trust me it hurts like hell when the one u spent more of your life with is now with someone else who loves him but i mean u guys did break up for a reason ya know? and if that reason wasnt strong enough u wouldnt have broken up
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:30:39 AM): but sometimes you dont get second chances on love like that?
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:30:56 AM): i mean sometimes you miss out on things because of the little fights
Marzie1629 (9:32:16 AM): u r only 20 trust me yes u do....i didnt think that when rob found someone else bc he was head over heels for me and now...hes not AT ALL. i miss him sometimes.....most times but i know that breaking up was the best thing to do bc being in a relationship and always fighting is something u DONT DO even though u love eachother u have to figure out if u wanna fight the rest of your life or find someone that u will only fight with a couple times
Marzie1629 (9:32:24 AM): bc everyone fights but not every second
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:32:49 AM): right
Marzie1629 (9:33:13 AM): and i know that u were unhappy a lot of the time bc of your fights
Marzie1629 (9:34:22 AM): u guys have been together a long time u should see what else is out there and if he does find someone...yes it will feel like he took your heart out and smashed it to pieces but trust me some guy will come along again and love u....i mean come on u were in love with mark then u guys broke up then u found adam now that adam and u broke up some other guy could come around
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:34:25 AM): but at the same time i was the happiest i had been
Marzie1629 (9:34:36 AM): fighting all the time?
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:34:49 AM): no not fighting
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:35:36 AM): im just scared thats all
Marzie1629 (9:36:43 AM): when rob likes jill for a lil i wanted him back and went back with him.....a WHILE AGO bc i thought i was going to lose him....we stayed together 2 weeks thats it
DaNNi eLLe MagZ (9:37:13 AM): but i mean arnt you glad u tried things again so you KNEW for sure that it was over?
Marzie1629 (9:41:28 AM): yes i did but u guys have done that before...gotten back together ya know? i mean if u wanna try it again then do it bc it will show u that he isnt the one....and trust me like this past week i actually made myself think that i wanted rob again but over the weekend my family made me realize that if i was truly in love with him i wouldnt of let him go in the first place and thats true i wouldnt of...i do love him bc he will always bc a part of my life he was my first "partner" and my first like real love other then adam and it hurts so much that he found someone else to love and basically forgot about me but i just am looking to find someone else so it doesnt hurt as much....and the worst thing is that when he was with jill he would say he wanted me back and he was in love with me but now he told me he is 100% in love with her and now apparently im gone
Marzie1629 (9:41:49 AM): but i gtg to class ill be back and we will talk about it
Marzie1629 (9:43:58 AM): dont worry u will realize that someone else will make u happier but try it out then if u feel that ur love will stay alive then GREAT but if u break up again u will just be sad all over again
((she clears and eases my mind))
this all came up because of this dream i had. i woke up crying from it. i had a dream adam moved on... and took me to this party and then got head from some other girl- told me all about it and then basically asked me to get out of his life. and i started begging for him to come back.
you know theres somethings you wont get over, but time heals all wounds. so does a helping hand and encouraging words.