Apr 25, 2004 01:34
Tonight I learned how much I Love my friend. I really do....She is truly amazing and so strong.She cried on my shoulder and I felt her pain. I saw every tear of pain stroll down her cheek bone. I felt every sigh she made peirce my heart. I feel peoples pain, I always have. When people get sad or mad I put myself in their shoes and I understand how they feel. And tonight I understood how she felt. There is this guy that puts her through so much shit....really he does. She's sososo nice that she even allows it sometime. When I went home, I asked my mom what my friend should do about the way he treats her. My mom said she should drop him...."I waited seven yrs for this one guy to change and he didn't, I waited this long for another...your friend is so young she can drop them all and find someone better." I know it is hard to tell her to drop him because she likes him. If she doesnt drop him she is going to have to tell him she cares about him and let down her frivalous facaude. THIS IS WHAT SHE REALLY NEEDS TO DO ESPECIALLY SINCE SHE DOES LIKE HIM. She is so strong and she needs to find this courage and talk to him and tell him how much she really cares and wants more than how he treats her. IF she doesn't, she will never find peace with herself him and this situation. SHE NEEDS THIS PEACE MORE THAN ANYTHING. AND SHE CAN NOT CONTINUE TO PLAY IT OFF AND LET HIM BE CARE FREE. BECAUE NOW SHE HAS REAL FEELINGS AND WITH THESE REAL FEELINGS COMES PAIN. YOU CANT ACT LIEK YOU DONT CARE WHEN YOU DO. IF ANYOEN HAS FELT PAIN OUT THERE HELP ME TELL HER THE RIGHT THING TO DO WHEN A GUY TREATS YOU NOT REPECTFULLY AND RIGHT IN A RELATIONSHIP.