I love it when I'm miss understood while I've been drinking
I was sent this email. From what was a friend of mine that didn't even ask what the hell.
Sami,
It's amazing to me that you can be so obtuse as to not realize you were the cause of the drama at the end of the evening.
You THREATENED my girlfriend. Threatened to kick her ass and "cut her up." Admitted to attempting to stalk her online. Made veiled comments about her children and truly offended me by doing this.
You also spent the better part of 20mins telling her how I should leave her and be with you. Now I've tried to be nice and polite about this in the past, but I'm going to be blunt. There never has been nor will there ever be any form of romantic relationship between us. Period. EVER.
And the final straw for me was this, you not only brought up the miscarriage she and I suffered through but blamed it on her and accused her of having an abortion. This was completely fucked up and speaks volumes about the complete and utter lack of respect you have for me and for her.
I'm done with you Sami. I no longer have any desire to speak to you, to see you, to interact with you in any way shape or form. You attack the people I love you attack me. What you've done is unacceptable and unforgivable. Don't contact me, don't contact *****, don't come to my home my work. If you contact me in any way shape or form I will file a restraining order.
Also, you spent the evening telling most of my guests about your feelings for me, also saying you don't love your husband and hate your children. I have lost any respect I ever had for you and want nothing to do with you ever.
Don't bother responding to this. I won't even read it.
Names were edited out.
Now let me break this down and explain what happened.
I went to a party. I had 6 beers and did have a few conversations and also had a very good time. Now where the email comes in.
You THREATENED my girlfriend. Threatened to kick her ass and "cut her up." Admitted to attempting to stalk her online. Made veiled comments about her children and truly offended me by doing this.
The only thing remotely close to a threat to his Girlfriend was I told her that I had his back and that he really deserves a nice girl. I told her I'm tired of seeing him hurt and I've watched lots of girls walk over him. I said I'd "cut her" if she hurt him. (I'd honestly never do this anyone who really knows me knows how NON violent I am). As for the "veiled commens about her children" I have NO IDEA where the hell that came from. She and I had a long conversation about our kids and how awesome it is to be a Mom. and I'll get to the "internet stalking" in a moment.
You also spent the better part of 20mins telling her how I should leave her and be with you. Now I've tried to be nice and polite about this in the past, but I'm going to be blunt. There never has been nor will there ever be any form of romantic relationship between us. Period.
I definately never said anything about her leaving him to be with me. I love this guy as a friend. I had a crush on him LONG AGO and far away but not now not recently.
And the final straw for me was this, you not only brought up the miscarriage she and I suffered through but blamed it on her and accused her of having an abortion. This was completely fucked up and speaks volumes about the complete and utter lack of respect you have for me and for her.
I did bring up the miscarriage as a bonding thing. I know what it's like to have lost a child. I've done it. I had an abortion several years ago and miscarried shortly after. As for blaming her or accusing her of having an abortion. I was explaining how I felt about the loss when I found out she miscarried and then immediately broke up with him. It seemed fishy and was the reason I was looking for her on Myspace and Facebook to find out what had happened and to see if there was anything I could do to help since I understand how it feel to have lost a child.
I'm done with you Sami. I no longer have any desire to speak to you, to see you, to interact with you in any way shape or form. You attack the people I love you attack me. What you've done is unacceptable and unforgivable. Don't contact me, don't contact *****, don't come to my home my work. If you contact me in any way shape or form I will file a restraining order.
Ok do what you have to do. I can't believe that some people just jump to conclusions with out asking questions. GEEZUS!!
Also, you spent the evening telling most of my guests about your feelings for me, also saying you don't love your husband and hate your children. I have lost any respect I ever had for you and want nothing to do with you ever.
My feelings for this guy are friendly. I LOVE HIM AS A PERSON AND AS A FRIEND!!! Yes I have said I don't love my husband. Sometimes I don't. Alot of times we fight and so we are in counseling. There it is folks SAMI & TIM aren't the perfect couple. OMG!!! I HAVE NEVER SAID I HATE MY CHILDREN SERIOUSLY! Jokingly I have but again anyone who knows me know I love my kids. REALLY WHATEVER!!
I can't believe that this is what my life has come to. I left that Party to go get my mom who was too drunk to drive and her boyfriend was arrested and her car was towed and she was left without shoes in the Ladera Shopping Center Parking Lot.
Maybe it's true. If your friends can just stop being your friends with out asking your side of a story or clarifying what happened Maybe they weren't your friend to begin with. I'm sad to loose a friend but maybe I'm better off.
Sami,
It's amazing to me that you can be so obtuse as to not realize you were the cause of the drama at the end of the evening.
You THREATENED my girlfriend. Threatened to kick her ass and "cut her up." Admitted to attempting to stalk her online. Made veiled comments about her children and truly offended me by doing this.
You also spent the better part of 20mins telling her how I should leave her and be with you. Now I've tried to be nice and polite about this in the past, but I'm going to be blunt. There never has been nor will there ever be any form of romantic relationship between us. Period. EVER.
And the final straw for me was this, you not only brought up the miscarriage she and I suffered through but blamed it on her and accused her of having an abortion. This was completely fucked up and speaks volumes about the complete and utter lack of respect you have for me and for her.
I'm done with you Sami. I no longer have any desire to speak to you, to see you, to interact with you in any way shape or form. You attack the people I love you attack me. What you've done is unacceptable and unforgivable. Don't contact me, don't contact *****, don't come to my home my work. If you contact me in any way shape or form I will file a restraining order.
Also, you spent the evening telling most of my guests about your feelings for me, also saying you don't love your husband and hate your children. I have lost any respect I ever had for you and want nothing to do with you ever.
Don't bother responding to this. I won't even read it.
Names were edited out.
Now let me break this down and explain what happened.
I went to a party. I had 6 beers and did have a few conversations and also had a very good time. Now where the email comes in.
You THREATENED my girlfriend. Threatened to kick her ass and "cut her up." Admitted to attempting to stalk her online. Made veiled comments about her children and truly offended me by doing this.
The only thing remotely close to a threat to his Girlfriend was I told her that I had his back and that he really deserves a nice girl. I told her I'm tired of seeing him hurt and I've watched lots of girls walk over him. I said I'd "cut her" if she hurt him. (I'd honestly never do this anyone who really knows me knows how NON violent I am). As for the "veiled commens about her children" I have NO IDEA where the hell that came from. She and I had a long conversation about our kids and how awesome it is to be a Mom. and I'll get to the "internet stalking" in a moment.
You also spent the better part of 20mins telling her how I should leave her and be with you. Now I've tried to be nice and polite about this in the past, but I'm going to be blunt. There never has been nor will there ever be any form of romantic relationship between us. Period.
I definately never said anything about her leaving him to be with me. I love this guy as a friend. I had a crush on him LONG AGO and far away but not now not recently.
And the final straw for me was this, you not only brought up the miscarriage she and I suffered through but blamed it on her and accused her of having an abortion. This was completely fucked up and speaks volumes about the complete and utter lack of respect you have for me and for her.
I did bring up the miscarriage as a bonding thing. I know what it's like to have lost a child. I've done it. I had an abortion several years ago and miscarried shortly after. As for blaming her or accusing her of having an abortion. I was explaining how I felt about the loss when I found out she miscarried and then immediately broke up with him. It seemed fishy and was the reason I was looking for her on Myspace and Facebook to find out what had happened and to see if there was anything I could do to help since I understand how it feel to have lost a child.
I'm done with you Sami. I no longer have any desire to speak to you, to see you, to interact with you in any way shape or form. You attack the people I love you attack me. What you've done is unacceptable and unforgivable. Don't contact me, don't contact *****, don't come to my home my work. If you contact me in any way shape or form I will file a restraining order.
Ok do what you have to do. I can't believe that some people just jump to conclusions with out asking questions. GEEZUS!!
Also, you spent the evening telling most of my guests about your feelings for me, also saying you don't love your husband and hate your children. I have lost any respect I ever had for you and want nothing to do with you ever.
My feelings for this guy are friendly. I LOVE HIM AS A PERSON AND AS A FRIEND!!! Yes I have said I don't love my husband. Sometimes I don't. Alot of times we fight and so we are in counseling. There it is folks SAMI & TIM aren't the perfect couple. OMG!!! I HAVE NEVER SAID I HATE MY CHILDREN SERIOUSLY! Jokingly I have but again anyone who knows me know I love my kids. REALLY WHATEVER!!
I can't believe that this is what my life has come to. I left that Party to go get my mom who was too drunk to drive and her boyfriend was arrested and her car was towed and she was left without shoes in the Ladera Shopping Center Parking Lot.
Maybe it's true. If your friends can just stop being your friends with out asking your side of a story or clarifying what happened Maybe they weren't your friend to begin with. I'm sad to loose a friend but maybe I'm better off.