Very valid point indeed. I posted elsewhere, I used to be in th same position back in high-school and college. At some point I decided to change myslf a bit and I stopped just being that nice guy. I think I stayed clear of turning into a complete asshole, but somethings changed. I know my confidence level went way up and a few things certainly changed about how I handled things. Such as learning when to move on--I think that was the most valuable thing. And it was a friend who made me learn that--thanks Phil!
And just so everyone is aware...I understand what Rich is going through thus why I have said the things I have. I do NOT think all women are bad, or dumb--just those who act like idiots :) And I feel the same about the men who constantly go after them. I think everyone goes through (and past) this problem--at least all decent ones do. The girls learn to stop laying all their troubles on a "good guy" and learn what they want--and become WOMEN. And the boys all eventually learn to move on and haden up just enough to no longer be a "good guy" and become MEN.
Very valid point indeed. I posted elsewhere, I used to be in th same position back in high-school and college. At some point I decided to change myslf a bit and I stopped just being that nice guy. I think I stayed clear of turning into a complete asshole, but somethings changed. I know my confidence level went way up and a few things certainly changed about how I handled things. Such as learning when to move on--I think that was the most valuable thing. And it was a friend who made me learn that--thanks Phil!
And just so everyone is aware...I understand what Rich is going through thus why I have said the things I have. I do NOT think all women are bad, or dumb--just those who act like idiots :) And I feel the same about the men who constantly go after them. I think everyone goes through (and past) this problem--at least all decent ones do. The girls learn to stop laying all their troubles on a "good guy" and learn what they want--and become WOMEN. And the boys all eventually learn to move on and haden up just enough to no longer be a "good guy" and become MEN.
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