Wee Hours
Well I still cannot sleep. But there was a very valuable benifit.
I got to speak with a friend Stayci I haven't spoke with in awhile. I had been wondering and worried about her. I tried contacting her to little avail. Then my mobility problems. SHe is down in the San Diego boonies. I found out she had been without electric at all for a month because of her landlord. No water either. Sweet Guy (asshole) So she is going to court tomorrow to enforce a restraining order against him and go to court next month to sue his ass. I have met him once. He is alittle on the odd side. I mean odd in a bad way.
We chatted for a bit. SHe was on generator power for electric for the computer. She wanted to get together for some coffee in a few days to see what was going on with me. Her words and was very adament about it.
Neither her nor I have really talked. I appreciate her offering. I told her it was a deal. (especially since I have transportation now) She is a pretty sensible person and goes the distance to understand. She is not only honest but truthful. She doesn't omit things, hint, and so on, or allow someone to do them either. Always has something to say regardless of what it may cause or if she feels its a contribution or not. Not afraid. I dunno maybe cause she realizes real friends and people won't walk if you do. They may or may not agree but they won't walk. Mature adults period. Real people period. Is she oh so serious no. Wo as me, definitely not. She is light hearted in her own way. Believing I guess those around her see that. And see whom she is without fearing it. She can be silly and also express deeper things without reserve.
Not having to go into one mode or the other. But at peace with herself to do both and be all that she is.
That stuff is what I like about her. She is a good person. Just a good person.
It just really sucks to see a good person deal with so much, when others that aren't worth their own skin don't. What she deals with with is fact not drama. Reality not fantasyland. The world not high school.
However, she has dealt with it and survived.
I got to speak with a friend Stayci I haven't spoke with in awhile. I had been wondering and worried about her. I tried contacting her to little avail. Then my mobility problems. SHe is down in the San Diego boonies. I found out she had been without electric at all for a month because of her landlord. No water either. Sweet Guy (asshole) So she is going to court tomorrow to enforce a restraining order against him and go to court next month to sue his ass. I have met him once. He is alittle on the odd side. I mean odd in a bad way.
We chatted for a bit. SHe was on generator power for electric for the computer. She wanted to get together for some coffee in a few days to see what was going on with me. Her words and was very adament about it.
Neither her nor I have really talked. I appreciate her offering. I told her it was a deal. (especially since I have transportation now) She is a pretty sensible person and goes the distance to understand. She is not only honest but truthful. She doesn't omit things, hint, and so on, or allow someone to do them either. Always has something to say regardless of what it may cause or if she feels its a contribution or not. Not afraid. I dunno maybe cause she realizes real friends and people won't walk if you do. They may or may not agree but they won't walk. Mature adults period. Real people period. Is she oh so serious no. Wo as me, definitely not. She is light hearted in her own way. Believing I guess those around her see that. And see whom she is without fearing it. She can be silly and also express deeper things without reserve.
Not having to go into one mode or the other. But at peace with herself to do both and be all that she is.
That stuff is what I like about her. She is a good person. Just a good person.
It just really sucks to see a good person deal with so much, when others that aren't worth their own skin don't. What she deals with with is fact not drama. Reality not fantasyland. The world not high school.
However, she has dealt with it and survived.