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[birdwotcher]

Funny how things go from brilliant to shite so quickly. Does it happen this way for most, or am I just especially lucky?

I'm beginning to miss the days where I threw myself into my work and stayed there. Having a so-called 'social life' isn't at all what it's cracked up to be. Perhaps a holiday isn't completely out of order.

I'm a teensy bit

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Private to Nymphadora

[subtle_simmer]

Oh, really?

After all this discussion, you still wish to make that assertion?

Let us consider logically, for a moment, shall we? I will assist you, since logic is clearly not your forte.

If you were so fortunate as to find the one person with whom you wished to spend your life, how inclined would you be, to voluntarily spend time with anyone who was going to deride your choice or be insulting to the person whom you have chosen?

Switch perspective - how hurt might you feel if your chosen partner continued to maintain a friendship with someone whom you knew was actively opposed, not only to your relationship, but to you, personally?

Why do you suppose Remus would still consider you a 'friend' with whom he would wish to associate, at all, after how you have behaved?

Have you been a 'friend' to him?

However, Remus has lost too many people he has cared about during the war. I will not willingly be the one to make him choose a path which would rob him of another.

Besides, I can afford to be magnanimous - in every way that matters, Remus has already chosen ME.

Allow me to offer you this bit of advice, gratis: I would not push the issue, were I in your very precarious situation. Even Harry Sodding Potter has made the effort to be tolerably civil with me, for Remus' sake. I am part of his life now, he is part of mine.

Get used to it, or go AWAY.