Comments | billyboylv: It's finally over

billyboylv

It's finally over

Jun 26, 2009 14:42

Dad passed yesterday morning. His blood pressure simply dropped and he was gone. As far as I know, he went peacefully, without incident. He was in the hospital for almost 3 weeks. Now we are fighting the fight for ashes so that I can have Thomas with me to scatter Dad's ashes probably next summer. My stepmother won't give me a portion of the ashes ( Read more... )

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i am sorry spaceblonde June 27 2009, 22:35:55 UTC

but rember that ashed are just that. You dont need them to have your own little thing with Thomas.

And keep a eye out he will be around

jazzfanatic June 29 2009, 03:26:07 UTC

I'm sorry to hear of your father's passing. Even though everyone knew that he had been nearing the end of his journey, it's still sad when it happens. I wish you peace and comfort as you mourn and process his passing, and good luck dealing with all that is to come.

> My stepmother won't give me a portion of the ashes because it "divides him up"...

Oh, please... ::eyeroll::

phoenix76xxx July 1 2009, 16:06:15 UTC

I'm really sorry to read this. Sending you positive energy...

shanda27 July 6 2009, 12:48:11 UTC

I'm sorry honey. Truly am.
Your step-mother needs to have a house land on her. I'll even volunteer mine. While we're not home that is.
Blondie's right, love. Take Thomas somewhere beautiful and peaceful, and tell him your memories of Dad. I did a lot of that when the Grandmother died, and I couldn't possibly get to the service. It helps some.
We love you, and miss you.