Change

Jul 01, 2006 14:55

Change comes in many forms, sometimes it is good, sometimes bad and sometimes many things can change and yet remain the same.

A lot is changing with me at the moment. Something which has been a major part of my life since I was 17 is coming to an end. I am separating from my husband after 6 years together and 2 years married. Fortunately for both of us it is fully mutual, and we hope to remain friends. We both now admit we were far too young to marry, although when people told us that at the time we said they were wrong, but then, when you are 21 you think you know it all! I think that at our age you still have too much growing to do to commit to another person long-term. I am not the same person I was at 17, or at 21, who knows who I will be at 25/30/40 etc?

Although I am sad for the end of my relationship, I am looking forward to single life. As I went from living with my parents to living with my partner/husband I have never lived alone, and although the idea scares me it is also separating. Just to be me, with no requirements or constraints beyond my own choosing will be a liberating experience.

So here's to solo life, more rallies, and being a free and single biker chick!

Jen
xxx
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