Mar 19, 2004 12:20
Well last night I had one of the most intellectually stimulating conversations I have had in a while. I love when people think outside the box and make you think....this only one of the many subjects we covered......
CraZee ChiCkk: why dont you believe in dating younger and frown upon those that hold the same issue to you?
SkubaLuba: because unlike people before me.. i have dated a few younger.. and well.. there was a lot of issues and well a LOT of bullshit to deal with.. and that was even before the dating started.. so i got tired of the bullshit... so i have tried it.. and well it was exhausting. So i feel that maybe older might be better.. but i am again.. starting to look the other way on that as well.. and as for my peers.. i feel in an odd way.. that their too well.. immature. granted i am not a mature person in any aspect.. but more mature for my age..
SkubaLuba: and another thing is that independence..
SkubaLuba: i cannot stand the richy rich girls who get everything from their mommys or daddys wallet...
SkubaLuba: i want a girl who has a concept of what money really is
SkubaLuba: because despite what people say.. money is a huge factor in life..
CraZee ChiCkk: ur an old soul i already told you that, and it is not uncommon to feel much older than your peers...it all depends on what youve been through in life...cuz experience and hardships can age you 20 yrs in a single moment
CraZee ChiCkk: it is....and your money issues arent with money
SkubaLuba: i'm not saying they should have to work like 40 hours a week to buy that pair of shoes they want.. but just someone with their head on their shoulders that isnt about to snap off at any given moment
CraZee ChiCkk: its with people not appreciating what they have and taking it for granted
SkubaLuba: yes.. see you can understand because you are one of those people..
SkubaLuba: and thats what attracts me to you..
SkubaLuba: because you are what you are because of who you made yourself to become
SkubaLuba: you, your attire, your actions, are a direct result of what you made yourself out to be in life..
SkubaLuba: and its very admirable
CraZee ChiCkk: and that in itself also makes you proud of who you are because you respect the past you came from
SkubaLuba: indeed
CraZee ChiCkk: and it is also rare to find people who do know who they are let alone be proud of it
SkubaLuba: very true
SkubaLuba: .. extremely hard
SkubaLuba: and rare
CraZee ChiCkk: its once you can accept what you are in your entirity...including the flaws..then you can build your life
CraZee ChiCkk: because before that its like building a house with no foundation
SkubaLuba: i agree.. *very architectually lunguistic of you btw*
CraZee ChiCkk: and once you accept that you arent perfect you realize those imperfections are what make you you, and imperfections are what make life worth it
CraZee ChiCkk: you have the whole world in your hands
CraZee ChiCkk: and its sad cuz most people dont even know what they hold
CraZee ChiCkk: :-\
SkubaLuba: i know.. the world is blind. its people who are true visionaries.. those select few
CraZee ChiCkk: exactly
CraZee ChiCkk: but sadly ignorance is what makes the world go round, and it is what will destroy it in the end
CraZee ChiCkk: and yes the problem with younger people...especailly when your in college and their not..
CraZee ChiCkk: is the fact that theyve never dealt with the real world, and if you have it makes your realms apart
SkubaLuba: spoken like a true visionary.. and a perceptionally in-tune person
CraZee ChiCkk: and its real life that teaches you what you really need to know, because people come out of highschool thinking that they know how the world works, and they believe everything they have learned because a book told them so
SkubaLuba: but if ignorance did not make the world go round..then the world dramp and dreary place.
CraZee ChiCkk: but it is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it
SkubaLuba: amazing insight there.. you might want to copyright that last quote there..
CraZee ChiCkk: well as bad as ignorance is, it can also be viewed as hope in the eyes of those who want to hold the world in a good light
CraZee ChiCkk: haha
CraZee ChiCkk: its aristotle...not me
CraZee ChiCkk: (im a huge philosophy buff)
SkubaLuba: lol i hadnt noticed
CraZee ChiCkk: and that is one of my favorite quotes about ignorance
CraZee ChiCkk: along with Knowledge is the small part of ignorance that we arrange and classify.
CraZee ChiCkk: ;-)
SkubaLuba: i must agree.. it is definetly a good one
CraZee ChiCkk: sorry i go off on these subjects, im rambling...i appologize
SkubaLuba: lol no no.. its ok
SkubaLuba: as the song quotes.. ramble on
CraZee ChiCkk: haha no im done...it was your insightes on women i sought in the first place
CraZee ChiCkk: ;-)
SkubaLuba: lol indeed
SkubaLuba: but thanks for the insight on courtney philosophication 101
SkubaLuba: ;-)
CraZee ChiCkk: haha, its sad that my mind is like a huge arrangement of information to use in debates
CraZee ChiCkk: lol
SkubaLuba: lol no its quite the refresher..
SkubaLuba: enjoyable, maybe classified as pleasureable even
CraZee ChiCkk: haha your easy to please then ;-)\
Why can't more people have these conversations with me?