Comments | bigstrides98: best wishes and thinking of others

bigstrides98

best wishes and thinking of others

Mar 29, 2005 01:06

I had something to write but now not so much. I just read sarah's sister's journal and well my problems seem, well selfish. I was going to write that I had just gotten up from watching an awesome movie...(not a problem mind you) I was about to say that it was a great movie. It related to how every family has it's disfunctions and well especially ( Read more... )

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schweds March 29 2005, 05:21:04 UTC

This may sound like a jery comment, but at least Jimmy's notin Afghanistan or Iraq... I know some people who are. And it truly sucks for them.

bigstrides98 March 29 2005, 10:48:46 UTC

Well do you remeber me telling you that his fiance is in Iraq? That's half of it. Maybe I'm a little too oldschool on this but it shouldn't be the girl going off to war and the guy staying behind. [Disclaimer: Not that they can't fight any harder or anything but in many cases I know women would excel quite well]. So that was some of it too. Kendall (jimmy's girl) is woken up mortar shells every morning. It's almost like the tower cannon. (mary poppins reference) At the airforce base she's at. She is being transfered some place else in a few days if not already...don't know exactly. Yea it totally sucks that all this happens. he was whining almost as much as I have been about you. the thing there is I'm pretty sure your going to be safe....I hope. And well yea I think of the friends that have gone out there, and well some are getting ready to go back too ( ... )

I Agree... twotwisted March 30 2005, 08:18:51 UTC

You told Sarah that when you two are online, you both take things the wrong way. I've experienced this MANY times. It's so easy to do-especially, when the online communication is coming from a couple. I actually had a miscommunication online with my co-worker. It was in our journal, but we deleted the entries. Luckily, she didn't hate me after the response I gave her to one of her journal entries. But yeah-I've been through a lot of online misinterpretations. I'm sure it's even harder for you and Sarah because the internet is your only means of communication. (For now).

Thanks! twotwisted March 30 2005, 08:46:18 UTC

At first, I read the title of this journal entry. Then I read, "I had something to write but now not so much. I just read sarah's" At this point, I was thinking, "Oh no, what happend!?!" I thought you were giving her your best wishes and telling her that you're thinking of others (girls). I'm glad that I kept reading on. I'm really beginning to think that there is no hope for us. A few months ago, I told him that I was pondering the idea of leaving him. For about a month afterwards, our relationship was better than ever-he tried so hard to keep me. I told him that I will have to make up my mind in April or May because our lease is up in August. So after a month, things gradually started going back down hill. No biggie, every relationship has problems and fights. I tried to be understanding of his frequent crabbiness because everyone gets in moods and yes, people do tend to take their frustrations out on others. So, the only thing left that I wanted him to change was the way he is with my son. I wanted him to start acting like Justin ( ... )