A Chance...

[bigmhowell89]

So I finally got the balls to tell a girl who I admire how I feel about her and she shot me down ( and because I know your gonna read this I am not mad at all, I just want to prove a point).Of course I cannot get mad about her not liking me ya know I just dont understand why we all cant have a chance. I mean since the end of the year alot of us who

Comments

[anna_korine]

Monte...I'm really sorry about what happened, but like Brianne said, i'm proud of you for taking the chance and asking. Really, if you want my opinion, love is something that you don't go looking for, its something that finds you. Don't go looking for someone, wait til they find you. Like, in my situation, there are plenty of wonderful guys out there, that if you go by what every girl wants in a guy, they would fit that description. So why don't i have feelings for all of them? Why him of all people? Because sometimes the perfect guy for a girl isn't the guy that one would normally look for. The girl you will someday fall for may not be someone you would think you would date, but for some reason, you love her. That kind of love is something that you can't hope to look for and find. It's something that you trip and fall on at the unexpected time. It's not about finding a suitable girl to hook up with, but more the crazy roller coaster of how you find her, befriend her, fight with her, hurt from her, but still always love her. Your perfect match has to find you or else they will simply be THE perfect girl, not YOUR perfect girl, if that makes sense at all. If you go back a ways in my live journal, look at my song, that really is what its about. I hope at least some of this made sense to you, and i really hope it helps. Call me if you ever need to talk to someone!! 503-548-7293

Much love,
Anna-Korine Hada