Relationships! UGH!

[bigmac33]

I love the fact that girls need to know how a guy feels. It's kinda annoying that we have to disclose personal information. Information that can be used to belittle us or against us. It's stressful knowing that being honest with your feelings and telling them to someone can totally break either your heart or theirs

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[youcutoutagain]

i guess i'll say something about your entry. a long distance relationship can work out. if you both like eachother and you really want to be with one another and there is hope of physically being with eachother one day. i mean if you are never ever going to see that person than there is no point. but if you have some reason to believe you can see that person once in a while at least and you are going on your mission soon, so it wouldnt matter where she lived then, as long as you keep in contact, you know? it could totally work out! and if it's bothering you this much maybe you should try being with her until you decide you really don't want to anymore. and about telling a girl how you feel. it's usually a good idea. you never know unless you try. i hope i helped. love ya. good luck :)

"Try being with her . . . "

[bigmac33]

The question is, what if she lives in another state? Is it worthwhile to drive all the way there for a couple of hours and then drive home for about 7/8 more hours?? About telling the girl tho, how do you do it without being totally rejected?

Re: "Try being with her . . . "

[youcutoutagain]

hm well theres no guaruntee. maybe talk to his girl more and try to get her to hint that she likes you or something. and then tell her. and you dont have to see the girl all the time. just talk to her a lot and it can be like you see eachother haha. it'll probably be a really strong relationship because you guys would talk a lot and get to know eachother a lot. i mean it could work out like this...long distance relationship, you go on your mission, and write a lot, you get back, see eachother, get married...awesome haha. if it's meant to be, it'll work out. you just have to trust your heart. haha i love that cliche. i believe it too. just dont fret over it too much. haha ok good luck. byee <3333333

Re: "Try being with her . . . "

[spiderbiker1234]

so what if she lives in another state? what's 7/8 hours compared to 2/3 days? if i drove to see siovhan, it would take that long. if you really don't wanna lose her, try to stay friends and hopefully you will find an oppurtune moment to tell her. if you wanna do it w/o being rejected, then wait til the rite moment and if possible, get her alone. hope that helps
-spence

Re: "Try being with her . . . "

[peachysudweeks]

"... how do you do it without being totally rejected?"

Generally speaking, I'm not sure that there IS a way to do it without the option of being totally rejected (if she's not being open about how she feels). You're putting your heart completely into someone else's hands!

But really, only you can weigh how much you like her against the obstacles: distance, time, and pretty soon age (it DOES make a difference when you're in college and she's not). And what you expect out of the relationship. I mean, is it worth it to do all that if you're going to break up when you leave on your mission, or do you see it more long-term?

But in the mean time, I think you should at least call her. YC was like ... three weeks ago. Even if you have decided not to be exclusive with her (none of my know-how), she is an AMAZING person, and you two should be friends!

Hope that helps some ...

Love,
Becca : )