'The Big Bang Theory' recap: The Joy of Dating

Oct 22, 2010 13:16

EPISODE 05 | AIRED OCT 21, 2010
'The Big Bang Theory' recap: The Joy of Dating
In a Penny-less episode, Leonard invokes his girlfriend pact with Howard, and Sheldon tries to avoid Amy Farrah Fowler
By Adam B. Vary | Published Oct 22, 2010


As much as I adore Kaley Cuoco, and as much as Penny is a profoundly necessary part of what makes The Big Bang Theory work, I found myself oddly grateful for the riding accident that forced Ms. Cuoco to miss last night's episode (and next week's). No, I'm not saying that I'm happy that a horse shattered the actress's left leg so severely doctors warned her they may have to amputate her foot -- an actor's nightmare if there ever was one.

I am saying that her unhappy absence from the show forced the writers to find a fresh and satisfying comic rhythm for the other characters. Things unfolded at a more lackadaisical pace. Leonard finally took center stage, and we got a fun new window into his relationship with Sheldon. Yes, Raj was almost entirely M.I.A., and yes it was kinda odd that no one even mentioned Penny's name, but all told, I'm quite impressed that the show weathered Penny's impromptu sabbatical this well.

Penny's presence was still definitely felt, though, thanks to Leonard's post-breakup anxiety about being alone. The episode opened with Sheldon and Leonard sitting on their couch lazily making fun of Hulk (the 2003 Ang Lee version), and instead of sniping at each other, they had a genuinely human conversation -- as much as is possible with Sheldon, anyway. Leonard expressed surprise that Sheldon and his girl-slash-friend Amy Farrah Fowler don't hang out more; Sheldon responded by saying, with real fondness, "Leonard, you are my best friend, I've known you for seven years, and I can barely tolerate sitting on the couch with you." Sheldon compounded the emotional growth of nonchalantly calling Leonard his "best friend" by further noting that Leonard was probably jealous that Sheldon has a woman in his life. Recognition of another person's emotional state is a major accomplishment for this man.

At first, Leonard feebly protested Sheldon's assessment. But then Leonard learned that Raj allegedly has a girlfriend -- who's deaf, so his speaking-in-front-of-women issue is no issue, by which I mean to say I'll believe this woman really exists when I see her. Even comic book store owner Stuart has a girlfriend; yes, she's a Wonder Woman fan who calls her vagina "my invisible plane," but at least he's not alone like Leonard.

So after a desperate attempt to meet women by posing as a Genius at the Apple Store's Genius Bar -- I'd have loved to see this instead of hear about it, even if it would've been just a massive Apple ad -- Leonard finally invoked the girlfriend pact he'd made with Howard, the very same pact that brought the bowl-headed engineer and his hoochie pants together with the adorably daffy Bernadette last season. Alas, Bernadette's pick for Leonard -- her self-defense classmate Joy (Charlotte Newhouse) -- did not spark similar romantic magic. Joy was, indeed, quite the opposite: A belching, boundary-free vulgarian so obnoxious, she qualified as Leonard's worst date ever. (Howard found that hard to believe: "I was once robbed by a pre-op transsexual I met on JDate, and that didn't even crack my top ten.") But then Joy invited Leonard to be her date at her cousin's wedding, "and it's an open bar, so I'll probably be giving it away." Second date, here we come!

Sheldon also had to deal with a relationship crisis of a sort after Amy Farrah Fowler asked him via video chat if he would meet her mother. This girlfriend-like request prompted a panicked Sheldon to scamper after Leonard down the apartment complex stairwell, repeatedly crying out "Leonard! Leonard! Leonard! Leonard!" -- one of my favorite Sheldon moments to date. Leonard suggested Sheldon simply tell Amy how he feels. "Leonard," Sheldon replied, "I'm a physicist, not a hippie." So Leonard offered a physicist's assessment: "What would you be if you were attached to another object by an incline plane wrapped helically around an axis?" Sheldon: "Screwed!" Leonard: "There you go." Big Bang humor at its nerdiest, and best.

After Sheldon's futile attempt to go off the grid to avoid Amy (and, yes, 2311 Los Robles is a real address near CalTech, though it appears it's not for an apartment complex), we were treated to the odd and fascinating spectacle of Sheldon using the stairway to count down the star systems nearest to Earth. Right before he hit the bottom, he got it wrong, and had to start all over again. I know the writers have said categorically that Sheldon does not have Asperger's Syndrome; not that it really matters either way, but they weren't exactly making their case with this scene. In any event, the capper to his cosmic liturgy -- "Those are the stars nearest to me, tra la la, and fiddle dee dee" -- was pure comic gold.

As was Sheldon's solution to his discovery of Amy waiting outside the lobby door for him: Donning a disguise consisting of a bright red parka and Groucho Marx glasses. She saw right through it, of course, and made clear she just wanted Sheldon to pretend to be her boyfriend so she could placate her mother. "You haven't fallen hopelessly in love with me?" Sheldon asked. "Don't be absurd," Amy replied. "I find the notion of romantic love to be an unnecessary cultural construct that adds no value to human relationships." Sheldon: "Amy Farrah Fowler, that's the most pragmatic thing anyone's ever said to me." Like it or not, these two were made for each other.
I, for one, like it. But funny as the line was, I could definitely do without ever again hearing Sheldon say "It's time for me to make love to your daughter's vagina."

What did you make of "The Desperation Emanation," Big Bang theorists? Did you miss Penny? And, for that matter, Raj? Were you happy with the more loosey-goosey pacing? Do you think/fear we'll be seeing more of Joy? And are you starting to find Howard's mom less hilariously brash and more off-puttingly crass?

Source - EW.com

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