Dec 30, 2005 03:23
Quick question, why can't you go somewhere clubbing just for fun and meet a nice guy who's interested in your personality? Ok, I think i need a reality check here, but seriously, Tonight was awful. I got lectured on why i should have sex with this guy, who i thought was cute and interesting, but just was a drunken bastard. It seems amazing to me that the world thinks so lightly of something like sex. What's so great about it if it doesn't mean anything? In one of my classes this year, my professor said that sex did not prove caring, rather it could symbolize it for people who are committed to eachother. Sex is not an end in itself. Intimacy is more than just making out. Why don't people get that? People will then tell me that this is an incredibly religious stance, but I don't think that it has to be. The reasons I choose not to have sex, God forgive me for this brute honesty, are much more practical than spiritual.
Where are the nice guys in this world? I don't think they exist! Well, at least not at dance clubs. I am so fed up with the entire male population right now.