Letter to a friend

Feb 15, 2006 22:35

I have such a difficult time understanding those who quickly judge others.
Here in the city most known for its diversity and acceptance, I find myself distraught over another person’s critical analysis. Some people can just let it go, understand that someone does not like them and realize that it is the other person’s problem. I have always been unable to do this. Maybe it is because I know that my intentions are pure and I am constantly seeking to be more genuine and appreciative of other people. I have always gone the extra mile for someone who I know is disagreeable with me.

So, friend, co-worker, and best friend of one of the people I love the most, this is what I wish I could tell you:

Your failure to acknowledge me except when that recognition is for the purpose of degrading or shaming me does not reflect poorly upon me, but upon your own character. I will, however, continue to be the best person that I can in your presence and prove to you that I am worth knowing and loving as an individual. In the meantime, you continue to hurt me and I will try my best not to be offended. I see how you take no qualms in judging others instantly without considering their positive intentions and I wish I could show you the good in each one of them.
You’re a hater, but I love you.
Previous post Next post
Up