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I'm having a weird mood day today.
It occured to me the other night when dining at the Capri with Jes and Ness that about 90% of my friends hardly ever call me - I call them.
Is this because we've established patterns of behaviour? Like.. they get used to me being the caller and them being the call-ee?
I don't think it's that people don't want me to call, or don't want to talk to me (although I'll accept that the evidence shows that this could definitely be the case)- most of the time, people answer the phone, and make plans, and we catch up.
It's just that I'm often the initiator.
Does anyone else have a similar experience?
I'm wondering if this is a 'just me' thing or an everyone thing.
I fear what would happen if I took a month off calling people.
Fear it so much in fact, that I just might do it.
Anyway this entry is making me uncomfortable.
It occured to me the other night when dining at the Capri with Jes and Ness that about 90% of my friends hardly ever call me - I call them.
Is this because we've established patterns of behaviour? Like.. they get used to me being the caller and them being the call-ee?
I don't think it's that people don't want me to call, or don't want to talk to me (although I'll accept that the evidence shows that this could definitely be the case)- most of the time, people answer the phone, and make plans, and we catch up.
It's just that I'm often the initiator.
Does anyone else have a similar experience?
I'm wondering if this is a 'just me' thing or an everyone thing.
I fear what would happen if I took a month off calling people.
Fear it so much in fact, that I just might do it.
Anyway this entry is making me uncomfortable.