You may not need to hear any of this but....rosinwoodJuly 21 2005, 08:26:25 UTC
Honey I have been in that exact same boat and I know it would have helped if someone had told me this sooner. It hurts like nothing else ever will. The only advice I can give you is the same that was given to me when I was in your shoes: "When it comes to guys, you just have to be patient." -Beth "Fitz" Atkinson If you two are meant to be together you will be. I know that is the last thing you want to hear, but it is true. Yell, scream, cry do whatever you need to do deal with the pain right now, but, don't let this ruin your world. Spend a day in you room sleeping and just being by yourself, but as soon as that day is over, get up get dressed, maybe make uourself up a little more that usual and go out and have fun. Call the girls or guys and just play. Go have coffee and to the movies. Remember that if he is who you want you have to just be patient. Don't presue him. It will only make things worse. It might even push him away. Love is scary and especially for younger guys. They are afraid of getting way to seriousa dn so they tend to break it off before they think it's gone to far. Plus guys are just dumb. Let him realize his mistake and he will come around. And alot faster than you think.
It hurts like nothing else ever will.
The only advice I can give you is the same that was given to me when I was in your shoes:
"When it comes to guys, you just have to be patient." -Beth "Fitz" Atkinson
If you two are meant to be together you will be. I know that is the last thing you want to hear, but it is true.
Yell, scream, cry do whatever you need to do deal with the pain right now, but, don't let this ruin your world. Spend a day in you room sleeping and just being by yourself, but as soon as that day is over, get up get dressed, maybe make uourself up a little more that usual and go out and have fun. Call the girls or guys and just play. Go have coffee and to the movies.
Remember that if he is who you want you have to just be patient.
Don't presue him. It will only make things worse. It might even push him away. Love is scary and especially for younger guys. They are afraid of getting way to seriousa dn so they tend to break it off before they think it's gone to far. Plus guys are just dumb.
Let him realize his mistake and he will come around. And alot faster than you think.
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