THE SECRET REASON WHY MEN FAIL WITH WOMEN
ONE OF THE THINGS THAT I'VE NOTICED IS THAT ALMOST EVERY GUY HAVE A "SECRET REASON", A GOOD REASON WHY THINGS AREN'T WORKING FOR THEM.
THE SECRET REASON...
I HAVE COME TO BELIEVE THAT MOST MEN WHO AREN'T SUCCEEDING WITH THE LADIES CARRY AROUND A "SECRET" FOR WHY THEY'RE NOT SUCCEEDING...A SECRET EXCUSE FOR FAILURE.
YOUR EXCUSE ISN'T AS MUCH OF A "SECRET" AS YOU THINK
HERE'S THE MOST INTERESTING PART OF THIS PARTICULAR PHENOMENON...NO MATTER HOW "PRIVATE" OR "PERSONAL" YOUR EXCUSE IS....IT'S VERY COMMON!!! AND GUESS WHAT? I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEIR ARE MANY, MANY GUYS OUT THERE THAT HAVE OVERCOME YOUR VERY SAME SITUATION AND GONE ON TO SUCCEED WITH WOMEN (SUCH AS MYSELF A LONG LONG TIME AGO...LOL) I THINK THAT THE SECRET EXCUSE IS OUR WAY AS GUYS OF MAKING IT EASIER TO AVOID FACING REALITY.
THE REASON FOR FAILURE IS INSIDE OF OURSELVES...IT'S THE WAY WE THINK AND BEHAVE!!!
BUT THE PROBLEM WITH A SECRET EXCUSE ISN'T THE EXCUSE ITSELF...IT'S THE FACT THAT MOST GUYS DON'T KNOW HOW TO OVERCOME THEIR SECRET EXCUSE. SECRET EXCUSES CAN WIRE THEMSELVES INTO OUR MINDS SO DEEPLY THAT WE DON'T EVEN KNOW THE EFFECT THAT IT'S HAVING. IF YOU BELIEVE THAT WOMEN WON'T FEEL ATTRACTED TO YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE SAY, OVERWEIGHT, THEN YOU WON'T EVEN TRY TO MEET WOMEN. YOU'LL JUST ASSUME THAT IT'S NO USE. THIS LEADS TO EVEN WORSE PROBLEMS, LIKE FEAR OF GOING OUT, FEAR OF TALKING TO PEOPLE, ETC. WHEN YOU DECIDE THAT THERE IS SOME BIG REASON THAT IS PREVENTING YOU FROM EVEN THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCCESS WITH WOMEN, IT BEGINS TO AFFECT EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE.
ONE OF THE REASONS THAT I'VE PUT SO MUCH TIME, EFFORT, EXPERIMENTATION, AND DEDICATION INTO FIGURING OUT THIS AREA OF LIFE AND EXPERIENCE IS BECAUSE I REALLY WANT TO BE ABLE TO EXPLAIN IT BETTER THAN ANYONE, AND HELP GUYS GET THIS PART OF THEIR LIFE HANDLED.
AND IF YOU RECALL, AS GUYS, WE'RE SUPPOSE TO BE TOUGH AND ACT TOUGH IN THE FACE OF DANGER. WE DON'T LIKE TO ADMIT THAT WE HAVE FEAR FOR WOMEN OR REJECTION. IT'S ALRIGHT, CUZ I ALSO HAD FEAR FOR WOMEN AND REJECTION A FEW YEARS AGO BUT I MANAGED TO MANEUVER THROUGH IT AND SUCCEED ALONG THE WAY. ALL I DID WAS TAKE ALL THE PAST FAILURE AND LEARN FROM IT WHICH LEADS TO SUCCESS
MY ADVICE....HAVE A LITTLE JOURNAL TO KEEP YOUR PROGRESS AND KEEP A NOTE OF WHAT WORKS AND WHAT DOESN'T!!!