There’s no easy way to say this, so...
The last fourteen years have been the most amazing of my life, but Lovely Wife Sara and I have come to different places in our lives with different goals in mind.
She and I are separating.
This is entirely amicable; we both love each other very fucking much and will be best friends forever. We’re happy, and we’re both going to have amazing lives.
We’re both exploring new relationships right now; mine is with Nadja Robot, aka
fairyarmadillo .
Of course there are still some sad moments, but basically, be happy for the fantastic years she and I had together, and be happy because we are.
Love,
benjamin and Sara