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So I decided to hang out with Mr. Jiu Jitsu one more time just to see if I can at least TRY to make him understand. Then we got into it, biiiiggg time. I was trying to leave when I started crying. I Never Cry! Which basically means.......I really like this guy underneath it all.
He sees me crying and I just see him fall apart on the inside. He hugged me and told me he was so sorry for being a dick, he begged me not to cry and he asked me to stay. I left anyways.
I get a call from the guy who hooked us up on the way home. He doesn't even say hi, he just says "What happened?" I explain as best as I can and he says "Okay, I'm going to call him back and try to straighten him out." I get a phone call a half an hour later. Its the same guy and he says "Lisa, please call him and talk to him. If you don't he's going to blow up my phone for the rest of the day."
So I call him. We talked for a looooooong ass time. I tell him if this has any chance of working, then he has to at least become more open-minded. He doesn't have to participate, change his beliefs, or even come to any of my events. But, he does have to maintain respect around me and my friends.
He agreed, but he told me I'm going to have to be more sensitive when it comes to just throwing something new and bizarre to him in his face. He said I have to hold him by the hand and ease him into these things. :-)
And things have been going very well ever since.
He showed me his scars, we talked about religion (and didn't argue once)and he did this little shimmy-shake dance right before I left his house that just MELTED ME!
And he has a song that he dedicates to me. It's called "Evil Angel" by Breaking Benjamin. :-)
He sees me crying and I just see him fall apart on the inside. He hugged me and told me he was so sorry for being a dick, he begged me not to cry and he asked me to stay. I left anyways.
I get a call from the guy who hooked us up on the way home. He doesn't even say hi, he just says "What happened?" I explain as best as I can and he says "Okay, I'm going to call him back and try to straighten him out." I get a phone call a half an hour later. Its the same guy and he says "Lisa, please call him and talk to him. If you don't he's going to blow up my phone for the rest of the day."
So I call him. We talked for a looooooong ass time. I tell him if this has any chance of working, then he has to at least become more open-minded. He doesn't have to participate, change his beliefs, or even come to any of my events. But, he does have to maintain respect around me and my friends.
He agreed, but he told me I'm going to have to be more sensitive when it comes to just throwing something new and bizarre to him in his face. He said I have to hold him by the hand and ease him into these things. :-)
And things have been going very well ever since.
He showed me his scars, we talked about religion (and didn't argue once)and he did this little shimmy-shake dance right before I left his house that just MELTED ME!
And he has a song that he dedicates to me. It's called "Evil Angel" by Breaking Benjamin. :-)