icon: "tree wisdom (photo of a large tree with roots underwater and trunk reflected in still waters, thick woods behind)"When I suspect that someone wants something, I usually ask them, "do you want [this thing]?" and it used to be that if they said "I don't know" I would ask more questions to help them figure it out. Somehow within the last month
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I'll almost always respond with "I don't know, here are all the factors" (unless the answer is toaster), but I don't mean it as a request for help; I'm just trying to answer the question as honestly and as completely as possible. I usually appreciate (or at least don't mind) people trying to help me figure out the answer, but I wanted to make sure you didn't feel pressured by the habit. :)
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And that left me feeling like people were hurt and I could have avoided it and it was just all terrible, so I've been doing a LOT of double checking on people's processing or poking an "I don't know" until I have a best guess from them.
Only when I have the spoons for it though. *shrugs*
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