As a person who self-identifies as a queer, genderfree, trans, poly, pagan feminist with nuanced views on porn and BDSM (mainstream of both is evil but ethical versions do exist), I've experienced a great number of perspective changes. There was a time when I identified as a woman, a wife, a Christian (exclusively), a Republican, and monogamous
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I've really struggled on my feelings with this, though I've given more thought to porn. I usually can't decide if porn is okay. Are people, women specifically, being free with their bodies or are they being exploited? I like your perspective and it answers my question. I will have to research about ethical porn and BDSM to learn more about what it entails.
I am also guilty of believing in some of these (and more of my own --I grew up going to a religious school..yikes). I like the idea of accepting and admitting the wrongness rather than trying to justify them in any way. I think I've always tried to justify them and used my religious background and racist family (I once asked my cousin why she was dating a black man..so shameful) as my scapegoat.
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Yeah, I think the first step is realizing that the world throws shit on you, and it's your job to clean yourself, not to claim the shit as part of you. I had lots of shit in my brain. Now I have less, but I'll never be free of it, gotta keep going.
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<3
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Thank you for the kind words <3
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I feel that if people are engaging in RACK (risk aware consensual kink), it's okay :)
While Dan and I aren't D/s or M/s anymore, we love hard and play harder, and I couldn't imagine my life without it.
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