You are not alone. I am so sensitive and receptive that even a shoulder massage makes me quiver and groan. Almost every part of my body can be an erogenous zone!
If it's any consolation, a lot of women can't orgasm at all... and heck, I'd love to be able to orgasm from very little touch. There's only really 1 or 2 ways to get me off so it's frustrating if neither one is working. So no, there is definitely nothing wrong with you! :)
I'm very much on the other end of the sensitivity scale (I'm quite disconnected from my body, something I'm gradually changing), but liked the glimpse of how it is for you. I don't think you sound strange - perhaps not common, but you aren't common - and I hope you'll find many partners who treasure and delight in your sensitivity. People are so /different/, sexually, and it's something that makes sex such an incomparable experience. I don't speak from much experience, but each person I've slept with I've needed to learn just what makes /them/ feel good (I've never yet felt I knew enough while we were together! I replay things in my head and daydream about how it could have gone better - not in a repentant way, in a loving way. It's a shame you can't usually go to exes and say "let's have some great sex with the benefit of hindsight!". Well. Depends on the exes.)
I'd share a couple of anecdotes but I feel the eyes of google watching in a public entry. :)
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I'd share a couple of anecdotes but I feel the eyes of google watching in a public entry. :)
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