the ex has decided that what was supposedly "ours" is now solely "his"

[belenen]

Comments

[oceanid]

*hugs* Despite the news, this post is a very positive step for you, very happy for you <3

[belenen]

*hugs back* yes it is! thank you ♥

[divinemiss_em]

Money is such a strange thing. It can make people do really strange and out of character things.
From reading this, I get the feeling that it isn´t really about the money, but more about feeling valued in general.
I´m sorry that you are going through all of this!! And good luck in your new job!!

[belenen]

well, it isn't really about the money, it's about feeling lied to AGAIN. It's like there's no end to how false our relationships was. bleh.

thanks for the empathy and luck! ;-)

[zen_sakka]

Congratulations on the new job, and I'm sorry that your ex is being an ass about money.

All will work out just fine, breathe and let it go. It could truly be worse.

Your friends are here for you, and YOU matter.

[belenen]

thanks! I'm not distressed about it. I still feel very lucky.

*hugs*

[saturnsdaughter]

Money always seems to bring out the worst in people. At least you didn't know he had this attitude while you were still together.

Congrats on getting the job. I hope it goes well :)

[belenen]

yeah, it all worked out for the best -- I just felt upset upon realizing (yet again) how misplaced my trust was. :-/

thanks!

[lorelei_sakti]

Congrats on the job! I don't blame you for not telling him about it yet.