hihi. man i haven't seen you in ages and was itching to tell you that in your last post but it was a no-comment one. but yes, after exams, we must catch up ok =)
k, on to more serious matters. Dude, I think u may have to sit your parents down and have a talk with them. They *should* know what your views are regarding the subject. I kinda know what it's like when u do things for others. eg: i realised one of the reasons I was taking so many mgt subjects was just to please my mum (mum= HRM Manager) and I'd tell myself that I was doing it to for employment sake. I WAS doing it for future job prospects as well, but more so becoz of mum >_<
And don't worry about not knowing what you wanna do in life. Answers to these questions don't always appear at the fall of a hat. Sometime's it takes a little longer, and when you DO realise what it is, you'll be glad you waited! Btw best of luck with the rest of your exams. BRB dinnah awaits meh :D *glomps and runs off*
mrmm~ what alfie said was prolly true. u should talk to your parents about this >_< it's important to enjoy what you're doing otherwise you'll never enjoy your chosen field and never really be happy :( u'll only REALLY excel doing something you enjoy. :) *hugs imouto-chan* ^_^
nya~ and yes. even i haven't totally figured mine out yet >_<; hang in there imouto-chan! Q>_
you can gradually know what you wanna be/do by giving yourself to try new things, and when you collect enough info, you'll know what you want which sadly to say that may take a life time. the fact is you can do EVERYTHING whether you like or not if you are not a retard or a disable one. my point is while you can't find what you want, do what you are able to and can stand with it. one thing in common for all majors in the uni gives you is the process of thinking system by using the subjects you learn as a tool, that's how different btw educated and uneducated people. I didn't say that uneducated one is stupid, they may even have genius way of thoughts without uni. many people in the real world do not have jobs by the certain majors they took, so you know ie. atm you take psychology, doesn't mean you have to be a psychologist, if you wise enough you can adapt it to other careers like HR, counselor etc etc you can think of. actually think it as an advantage that you challenge yourself and are learning another thing you're not interested
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*snuggles* i think you just need to get the last exam out of the way first so you don't have uni stress on you.
its not easy knowing what you want. and even if you think you want it, you might not have the will to obtain it. so don't think that you need to rush yourself into 'wanting' something, it'll only slow down the process in my opinion. it'll come to you eventually.
live your life one day at a time. why panic over something like uni when for all we know, everyone could die tomorrow? relax and do the things you love to do~
Hmmm... I think that's my mentality now except it's wrong. I live life one day at a time but then what happens if I get hit by a car tomorrow? I died doing something crappy I never enjoyed at all.
mmmmmm... dying tomorrow having achieved nothing (for me) would be better than dying tomorrow having begun something but been unable to complete it... dying tomorrow can happen to anyone and its just as bad whether you have some kind of high minded direction or goal or not... so screw it... who cares whether or not you 'achieved something'
are you going to care in your grave how people still alive are judging your life ? point is... that you make the point yourself :D
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k, on to more serious matters. Dude, I think u may have to sit your parents down and have a talk with them. They *should* know what your views are regarding the subject. I kinda know what it's like when u do things for others. eg: i realised one of the reasons I was taking so many mgt subjects was just to please my mum (mum= HRM Manager) and I'd tell myself that I was doing it to for employment sake. I WAS doing it for future job prospects as well, but more so becoz of mum >_<
And don't worry about not knowing what you wanna do in life. Answers to these questions don't always appear at the fall of a hat. Sometime's it takes a little longer, and when you DO realise what it is, you'll be glad you waited! Btw best of luck with the rest of your exams. BRB dinnah awaits meh :D *glomps and runs off*
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mrmm~ what alfie said was prolly true. u should talk to your parents about this >_< it's important to enjoy what you're doing otherwise you'll never enjoy your chosen field and never really be happy :( u'll only REALLY excel doing something you enjoy. :)
*hugs imouto-chan* ^_^
nya~ and yes. even i haven't totally figured mine out yet >_<; hang in there imouto-chan! Q>_
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its not easy knowing what you want. and even if you think you want it, you might not have the will to obtain it. so don't think that you need to rush yourself into 'wanting' something, it'll only slow down the process in my opinion. it'll come to you eventually.
live your life one day at a time. why panic over something like uni when for all we know, everyone could die tomorrow? relax and do the things you love to do~
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are you going to care in your grave how people still alive are judging your life ? point is... that you make the point yourself :D
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