The End Of Murat And The Rise And Fall Of Garry

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Okay so Murat finally ended things with me because I told him that I prefer to do my studying at home and not in a hotel room with him. He tells me I don't trust. Well you know what I can't anymore cause he keeps pushing this thing with me . Anyways that is fine cause I am so sick of his drama. I found another guy on Pof his name is Garry and he is 26, a Leo and he is about 2 inches shorter then me . He is originally from the Bahamas but he has lived in Miami for most of his life and now he has decided to move out here to start a business. he is my first black interest since going on this site.I guess black guys really don't like thick woman that much. Oh well. I met him at Chapters where we talked for a bit and decided that we would meet up again soon. First impression? He was alright but nothing spectacular. I was at least glad he spoke proper English. Thanks goodness for simple pleasures.He sucked a conversation but I was willing to give another chance. We scheduled time to watch a movie at Colossus and we had a good time. I mean he talked a bit more in the movie and at Second cup but overall he was just alright. I think a lot of our disconnection came from the fact that Garry and I were like those power couples you see in movies. Totally busy and being together at the same time . LOL I mean we never really spoke on the phone . All we did was text and when we went out we were connected to our phones. Always checking e-mails and stuff . On top of that we had to schedule in seeing each other. I didn't mind it but I wasn't able to connect with him which was our downfall. After Garry and Murat, I met another guy named Bart only online though and we only spoke twice and the reason fro that was because I explained to him that my life was busy and you know what he said: " How are you planning to be in a relationship if you are so busy. You have to make time for that too" Okay its a legitimate statement but i can manage . Many woman have families and a work life and they can do it all and so can I. It was after him that I came up with my newest rule: DO NOT SETTLE!!!!!!!

And I plan to live by it. Till next time