Limits to Love and Attraction?
This is my firm belief.
The only limits to love and attraction are the ones we ourselves allow to put on ourselves. whether because we &http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8216;buy into&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217; societal pressures, cultural norms or other programming&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8230;we are capable of loving at such a grand scale, but hold ourselves back- often due to this programming and/or fear associated with the &http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8216;need&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217; to control us via this programming.
If this scares you, I would request you examine WHY this is a scary concept for you? If your answer is, because the law/bible/somebody&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;s rules&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217; say this is &http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8216;wrong&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;- you EXAMINE. DEEPLY examine whether this is truly an accurate reflection of reality? It may be that for *YOU*, such levels of loving or being attracted may not be available- but can you imagine or see that it could be available for others? If it isn&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;t accessible to you- some self-reflection might help you better understand why this isn&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;t something that you can see for yourself. It could be that you simply haven&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;t imagined the possibility, or are uncomfortable or even afraid of this possibility?
If, after examining for yourself why this statement might make you uncomfortable- you can start expanding your boundaries easily by imagining that you love or feel goodwill at least, to others you already meet and interact with. Attraction doesn&http://www.inzenity.org/blog/#8217;t have to be part of the equation- just goodwill and compassionate Love for others can help you grow further into the idea of being able to Love without limits.
Try it. It might be a fun experiment!
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