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OUR RELATIONSHIP
His Name:
Chris
How did you meet?
English class freshman year of HS
When did you meet?
First day of freshman year in HS, which was in 2001
What were your first thoughts?
I thought he was a weird kid who sat next to me in English class. I noticed his dark hair.
What/where first date?
hm... june 2005 he came over to my house and we went bike riding. first "date-ish" date I guess was a few weeks later in Corsica at a cafe. first real date where we both knew it was a date was to see War of the Worlds in July 2005.
How old both of you?
Both 21
When did he meet your family?
it's hard to tell.. the first time he ever really talked to my mom was the summer after HS graduation
What did your family think?
she thought he was cute and quiet.
When did he meet your friends?
we were part of the same group of friends in HS. My current friends he met sophomore year of college.
What did they think of him?
HS: They were his friends too. College: thought he was quiet and nice.
When did you meet her/his friends?
these questions are complicated. We meet each other's friends as they become important to us.
What did you think of them?
I don't know many of them very well, but those who I know are ok.
PERSONAL STUFF
What's your favorite body part on him?
His face in general. Maybe his smile most. or his hair.
Who held whose hand first?
me
What was the first kiss like?
exhilarating and intense and tender and confusing
How did you feel after the first kiss?
adrenaline... confused... worried... excited
Who made the first "big" move?
me
How did you feel?
impatient? whatever.
Who has the most EX baggage?
me.
What's the worst thing he has done to ruin your relationship?
if he had ruined it, we wouldn't be together? I don't think he's done anything very bad for us.
What's the worst thing your ex has done to ruin your relationship?
to ruin my current relationship, or the relationship between me and my ex? My ex has made it hard for me to trust my current BF (or men in general.)
Do you talk to each other's ex?
I talk a lot to one of his, he does not talk to mine at all.
Have you talked marriage yet?
vaguely...
How did he propose?
no
When's the wedding date?
not for many years, if it happens.
Have you talked about kids yet?
haha vaguely, which was weird, but whatever.
How long into the relationship before the first fight?
we don't fight often. we had some bumps at the beginning, but then no real fights until... a year later? we've probably had a total of... 1.5 actual fights.
What did you argue about?
He had asked me to bring my frame pack so he could go hiking. I forgot to bring it and he got kinda mad, and I said that I didn't think it was a big deal because he didn't need it for another month or so. Then he snapped at me and I started crying and he wouldn't apologize for making me cry. Haha i think i still have issues about this. whoops.
FUN STUFF
Who flirted first?
it was very gradual and kinda mutual. I think he said the first suggestive thing, though.
How did you know he was into you?
he was paying a lot more attention to me than he ever had before. He would come over to me all the time and would talk to me for hours online and on the phone.
Did he use a pick up line, if so, what?
hahaha i don't think so
Longest you've gone without seeing him?
since we've been together, 7 weeks.
Friends before relationship?
yes for a few years.
Has he made you cry?
yes
Have you made him cry?
yes
What do you fight about?
we almost never argue. it's really bizarre. Mostly it's about not seeing each other enough or stupid stuff about science/philosophy.
What do you do to fix problems in your relationship?
we talk and collaborate. most of our problems stem from not seeing each other enough, so we just try to see each other more and things just fall into place.
Do you go out on dates?
pretty much every week. that's one of the benefits to going to different colleges, we often meet in the middle and go do fun things.
His Name:
Chris
How did you meet?
English class freshman year of HS
When did you meet?
First day of freshman year in HS, which was in 2001
What were your first thoughts?
I thought he was a weird kid who sat next to me in English class. I noticed his dark hair.
What/where first date?
hm... june 2005 he came over to my house and we went bike riding. first "date-ish" date I guess was a few weeks later in Corsica at a cafe. first real date where we both knew it was a date was to see War of the Worlds in July 2005.
How old both of you?
Both 21
When did he meet your family?
it's hard to tell.. the first time he ever really talked to my mom was the summer after HS graduation
What did your family think?
she thought he was cute and quiet.
When did he meet your friends?
we were part of the same group of friends in HS. My current friends he met sophomore year of college.
What did they think of him?
HS: They were his friends too. College: thought he was quiet and nice.
When did you meet her/his friends?
these questions are complicated. We meet each other's friends as they become important to us.
What did you think of them?
I don't know many of them very well, but those who I know are ok.
PERSONAL STUFF
What's your favorite body part on him?
His face in general. Maybe his smile most. or his hair.
Who held whose hand first?
me
What was the first kiss like?
exhilarating and intense and tender and confusing
How did you feel after the first kiss?
adrenaline... confused... worried... excited
Who made the first "big" move?
me
How did you feel?
impatient? whatever.
Who has the most EX baggage?
me.
What's the worst thing he has done to ruin your relationship?
if he had ruined it, we wouldn't be together? I don't think he's done anything very bad for us.
What's the worst thing your ex has done to ruin your relationship?
to ruin my current relationship, or the relationship between me and my ex? My ex has made it hard for me to trust my current BF (or men in general.)
Do you talk to each other's ex?
I talk a lot to one of his, he does not talk to mine at all.
Have you talked marriage yet?
vaguely...
How did he propose?
no
When's the wedding date?
not for many years, if it happens.
Have you talked about kids yet?
haha vaguely, which was weird, but whatever.
How long into the relationship before the first fight?
we don't fight often. we had some bumps at the beginning, but then no real fights until... a year later? we've probably had a total of... 1.5 actual fights.
What did you argue about?
He had asked me to bring my frame pack so he could go hiking. I forgot to bring it and he got kinda mad, and I said that I didn't think it was a big deal because he didn't need it for another month or so. Then he snapped at me and I started crying and he wouldn't apologize for making me cry. Haha i think i still have issues about this. whoops.
FUN STUFF
Who flirted first?
it was very gradual and kinda mutual. I think he said the first suggestive thing, though.
How did you know he was into you?
he was paying a lot more attention to me than he ever had before. He would come over to me all the time and would talk to me for hours online and on the phone.
Did he use a pick up line, if so, what?
hahaha i don't think so
Longest you've gone without seeing him?
since we've been together, 7 weeks.
Friends before relationship?
yes for a few years.
Has he made you cry?
yes
Have you made him cry?
yes
What do you fight about?
we almost never argue. it's really bizarre. Mostly it's about not seeing each other enough or stupid stuff about science/philosophy.
What do you do to fix problems in your relationship?
we talk and collaborate. most of our problems stem from not seeing each other enough, so we just try to see each other more and things just fall into place.
Do you go out on dates?
pretty much every week. that's one of the benefits to going to different colleges, we often meet in the middle and go do fun things.