RaeLynn shared this with me...Kinda interesting.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find out what makes you truely happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then hell no you can't "be friends." Don't settle. If you like he's stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll just be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are still not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You can not change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel that he is more important than you are, even if he does have more education or a better job. Do not make him into a Quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists for two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted. NEVER move into his mother's house. NEVER co-sign for a man.
Ok, so she's a bit of a man basher, but theres a couple parts that really make sense.
Ok, so she's a bit of a man basher, but theres a couple parts that really make sense.