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i have two guys that are interested in me. im def not complaining its just that they were both my friends in high school. one of them doesnt like the other. i dont care if they get a long or not. anyways, they both asked me out on a date. i will go out with both to see how it goes.
i was just kinda shocked with one of them. i will call him "luis". i really had no idea that john wanted to go on a date with me. i mean we would flirt sometimes but then we would just laugh about it. i told my friend about him and how before we stopped messaging each other yesterday, he said not to forget about a date with him sometime this summer. she said that he def wants to make that date happen. i was just kinda caught off guard. one minute we're talking about how he has a blind date next week and a little while later he's asking me out! i dont mind going out with him cuz first off, hes a sweet guy. second, hes hot. but other than that he has a great personality and hes smart.
the other guy, i will call "jose", i knew already that he liked me. he would constantly tell me that he thinks we would make a good couple, but seeing as how im not really attracted to him, i dont think that would happen. first, he is mean sometimes and says hurtful things about people. i have stopped talking to him twice before he asked me out for being so mean. i dont like it when people are being teased. second, im not really attracted to him. but i know that that doesnt mean anything. he can be a sweet kind hearted guy. but i know that he acts a certain way and says certain things with me because he has said that he feels comfortable with me and knowing that hes just joking. jose is smart as well. he was accepted to harvard but only went there for two years before transferring to a school nearby.
so my dilemma is what if after many dates with both guys, they both start to like me a lot and want to be with me? it would be a hard choice because i dont want to hurt anyone.
maybe i am just putting too much into this and too much thought. we havent even gone out yet. i dont know when we will go out. with jose im supposed to go out with him whenever i go back to my hometown which wont be for a few weeks. also i dont really like going out when im home because my parents are very strict with me and guys. i cant go out past 11pm which is ridiculous because im 21. so i would rather go out with him here. which means he would have to drive up to see me. which i know he doesnt mind doing. with luis,he only lives an hour away so i dont think that would be a problem.
dont know what to do. i will date both but im just worried that it will go well with both leaving me with a big decision. a decision that would be hard not only because they are both my friends but also because this is my senior year in college and that means a lot of work and being busy.
i was just kinda shocked with one of them. i will call him "luis". i really had no idea that john wanted to go on a date with me. i mean we would flirt sometimes but then we would just laugh about it. i told my friend about him and how before we stopped messaging each other yesterday, he said not to forget about a date with him sometime this summer. she said that he def wants to make that date happen. i was just kinda caught off guard. one minute we're talking about how he has a blind date next week and a little while later he's asking me out! i dont mind going out with him cuz first off, hes a sweet guy. second, hes hot. but other than that he has a great personality and hes smart.
the other guy, i will call "jose", i knew already that he liked me. he would constantly tell me that he thinks we would make a good couple, but seeing as how im not really attracted to him, i dont think that would happen. first, he is mean sometimes and says hurtful things about people. i have stopped talking to him twice before he asked me out for being so mean. i dont like it when people are being teased. second, im not really attracted to him. but i know that that doesnt mean anything. he can be a sweet kind hearted guy. but i know that he acts a certain way and says certain things with me because he has said that he feels comfortable with me and knowing that hes just joking. jose is smart as well. he was accepted to harvard but only went there for two years before transferring to a school nearby.
so my dilemma is what if after many dates with both guys, they both start to like me a lot and want to be with me? it would be a hard choice because i dont want to hurt anyone.
maybe i am just putting too much into this and too much thought. we havent even gone out yet. i dont know when we will go out. with jose im supposed to go out with him whenever i go back to my hometown which wont be for a few weeks. also i dont really like going out when im home because my parents are very strict with me and guys. i cant go out past 11pm which is ridiculous because im 21. so i would rather go out with him here. which means he would have to drive up to see me. which i know he doesnt mind doing. with luis,he only lives an hour away so i dont think that would be a problem.
dont know what to do. i will date both but im just worried that it will go well with both leaving me with a big decision. a decision that would be hard not only because they are both my friends but also because this is my senior year in college and that means a lot of work and being busy.