I hate him...
1st of all im gonna state that im just writing this in here bc its easier and than im gonna transver this to TOD.
Today Adam and I were suppose to leave after he got out of work to go see Meagin. Everything was going as planned. Adam was allowed to go, dad was going to let me borrow his car, and once we got back with Meagin Dad was going to take her home. All planned out see, the only thing we need was Meagin's dads approval. But of course he said no. His reasoning being bc Meagin's Grandmother was mad at her bc "shes pregnant and she didnt tell her herself." But the weird thing is IM NOT MAD ABOUT THAT! Once all that was said and i found out. My mom talked me into going anyways, saying that we have everything all planned out anyways. So why not just go?? Take the 6 hour trip, stay the night, leave in the morning and get home just in time to move Adam... Same thing we would've done just the only difference was that Meagin wouldnt be coming home with us...
So my dad calls just as i was telling meagin that i was coming anyways. I go to him "i need ur car by 2 oclock bc we're leaving to go see meagin," my dad just said "well then u cant use my car" I flipped out. "why? u said i could use ur car!!! why cant i now????" i started crying and i got off my cell with meg.
I hand my brother the phone sence thats who my dad wanted to talk to in the 1st place. I tell my mom what he just pulled and she grabs the phone from jason and starts yelling "YOU COCK SUCKER YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THIS IS DOING TO HER!" i started jumpin up and down telling her to stop. and she did. I just started crying harder.
I call my dad after my brother gets off the phone and he didnt answer. than he turned off his phone. I called his house to talk to him. He gets on and he proceeds to tell me that he hasnt seen his best friend in 5 yrs so 2 yrs is nothing, and that it would be completely dumb to go there for 1 night. That if we get in an accendent that HE would have to pay for it, and he dont want me to go. That he didnt care that he told me that i could take his car, bc the only reason why he told me that in the 1st place was bc he knew the Meagins father wouldnt let her go. So i wasnt going to go with his car unless we brought meagin back up here.
I asked him if him and his "friend" try to keep in touch. his reply was no... then i told him that they obviously werent good enough friends then. My dad then told me that it would be different if meagin was in michigan then i should try to keep in touch, but she lives SOO far away that there is no way to do so. This is when i got mad... "well she dont live in michigan, she lives in iowa, so you expect me to just give up on her?! Its not happening. She live 6.5 hours away... that less than going up north! but of course that totally different right?"
I got off the phone with him bc my sister called me. She was kinda surprised that dad did this at the last moment but it didnt surprise her. She was shocked when he agreed to do anything for me when it came to meagin let aloan let me take his car. She expected for him to do something so i wouldnt go. She then told me that she would let me take her car but i better off taking my own and she knew that dustin wouldnt let us take his new truck. I understood.... i would never expect them to do that for me. But im glad she said that.
Whats going to happen is.... my mom and i are going to go next weekend. for a "long weekend" and i get to spend a whole day with meagin. Leave friday have her stay that night with us in a hotel then spend all of saturday and then spend that night with her also then leave out sunday morning. better than nothing i guess. I finally get to see my meagin.
Like i said to meagin... this all happened for a reason. And that reason was bc i know now to never trust my father... and to never ask him of a favor this big again. I now hate my father is some aspect and ill never forget he did this to me. He only thinks of himself. Thats fine, ill never do anything for him again and never expect anything but the worse from him. Lesson learned... Dont trust Jim Blanton!
Ambie