intresting thoughts. i agree with your first essay about mr. available/halfway decent. but i dont agree that if you cant find someone before your ex then you're doomed to be miserable. there are a katrillion zillion people in the world. there is someone out there for everyone - in my oppinion there are numerous people out there for everyone - and no he may not have all the things you're looking for, but there are some that are more important then others, i'd imagine. for instance, i think it might be more important that he be indifferent to the world but care about then that he owns a jean jacket. and if the jean jacket really does mean a lot to you, then it'd make a nice birthday gift for him. :) point is, i dont think girls should have to lower thier standards at all i just think we have to sometimes priorotize them - and sure there's a risk of getting hurt - there always is. but sometimes it can be worth it.
yes. i am doomed to be miserable because i am me. i have thought this one through. and no, there isn't prioritizing with my standards. if he truly meets my standards he should come as a whole package, otherwise how would i tell him from anyone else? and i don't see the "risk" of being hurt worth anything. and no i'm not scared. i am able to step back from my life and look at what's fucked up in it.
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