that is the question, isn't it?justnefApril 3 2009, 19:26:42 UTC
are you a child?
you may be an adolescent as far as your physiology. Psychologically-speaking, adolescence spans a great many years... b/w the onset of puberty to well into one's 20's (almost even 30). and that range grows as societal norms continue to change. however, adolescence doesn't really count as far as legal/social status. you're either a child, or a young adult or an adult. considering the fact that you do not hold a steady job and pay any bills, but are cared for by others, that makes you a child.
of course i want to add the disclaimer that it is unfortunate that the grand'rents are having power trips that are deeply affecting your life. and you do make many very good points about your obligations to things other than cleaning their house. now if only you can find some way of communicating effectively with one another i think a lot of the issues can be worked through. i would recommend a third party advocate. however, that's dangerous if it offends either of their egoes. maybe you should seek the assistance of an outside third party to help you communicate more effectively with them yourself, as opposed to using them as a mediary.
think it over mama. i know that mentally you're at the very least a young adult. try to overcome your differences diplomatically and without hostility and anger if possible. i love you ♥
you may be an adolescent as far as your physiology. Psychologically-speaking, adolescence spans a great many years... b/w the onset of puberty to well into one's 20's (almost even 30). and that range grows as societal norms continue to change. however, adolescence doesn't really count as far as legal/social status. you're either a child, or a young adult or an adult. considering the fact that you do not hold a steady job and pay any bills, but are cared for by others, that makes you a child.
of course i want to add the disclaimer that it is unfortunate that the grand'rents are having power trips that are deeply affecting your life. and you do make many very good points about your obligations to things other than cleaning their house. now if only you can find some way of communicating effectively with one another i think a lot of the issues can be worked through. i would recommend a third party advocate. however, that's dangerous if it offends either of their egoes. maybe you should seek the assistance of an outside third party to help you communicate more effectively with them yourself, as opposed to using them as a mediary.
think it over mama. i know that mentally you're at the very least a young adult. try to overcome your differences diplomatically and without hostility and anger if possible. i love you ♥
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