I have some thoughts onto this, but I feel it is rather neccessary to talk privately about.
But...I am quite surprised she would act this way. I think now I'm beginning to understand the feelings of...someone else, I should say.
I've come to a theory. Either you're just seriously getting hurt, and you've had enough, or it could be denying the true personality of someone that you were once close to. Who knows, I know not enough to be right for sure.
All I know is I truly wish all this fighting would end. You, Eric, have tried a lot to CONFRONT her about all of this, and yet all I've seen from this is her arguing about this and that. To me, that is not being an adult.
I have to agree with my friend for the most part. If at all anything, she is as guilty as you are with this whole relationship conflict.
And I don't see how talking about what's been happening in your life with other people "getting them involved." If that's true, then I guess we all ALWAYS get people involved with our problems. That really does not make much sense, as we all need someone to talk to about our life problems. Sure we all don't have much time, or in some cases, patience to hear about it, which in my book, is a bit selfish...
Getting others involved would mean DIRECTLY asking THE PERSON to actually talk to the conflicted person about it. Yet by the looks of it, the person you talked to went to her by HIS OWN WILL. And thus, it does not mean YOU got HIM involved. She has done it too, if I'm not mistakened, so I don't see why she has the right to say that to you, even though you had no one get involved. If that's what she thinks getting involved means, then I guess we all shouldn't talk to others about our lives, and our lives are based a lot around people, is it not?
I have a lot to say, but I'll stop there. Do not worry. You are not wrong in trying to find answers. And you are absolutely not wrong for telling someone else about your feelings. If you ever need to talk to someone about anything, I am here. I have more time on my hands now.
How I wish Goteth was here...I'm sure he'd be better at words of comfort...he's always been there for us...even if not physically, he will always be with us spiritually. You're not alone either...you can count on that, my friend.
But...I am quite surprised she would act this way. I think now I'm beginning to understand the feelings of...someone else, I should say.
I've come to a theory. Either you're just seriously getting hurt, and you've had enough, or it could be denying the true personality of someone that you were once close to. Who knows, I know not enough to be right for sure.
All I know is I truly wish all this fighting would end. You, Eric, have tried a lot to CONFRONT her about all of this, and yet all I've seen from this is her arguing about this and that. To me, that is not being an adult.
I have to agree with my friend for the most part. If at all anything, she is as guilty as you are with this whole relationship conflict.
And I don't see how talking about what's been happening in your life with other people "getting them involved." If that's true, then I guess we all ALWAYS get people involved with our problems. That really does not make much sense, as we all need someone to talk to about our life problems. Sure we all don't have much time, or in some cases, patience to hear about it, which in my book, is a bit selfish...
Getting others involved would mean DIRECTLY asking THE PERSON to actually talk to the conflicted person about it. Yet by the looks of it, the person you talked to went to her by HIS OWN WILL. And thus, it does not mean YOU got HIM involved. She has done it too, if I'm not mistakened, so I don't see why she has the right to say that to you, even though you had no one get involved. If that's what she thinks getting involved means, then I guess we all shouldn't talk to others about our lives, and our lives are based a lot around people, is it not?
I have a lot to say, but I'll stop there. Do not worry. You are not wrong in trying to find answers. And you are absolutely not wrong for telling someone else about your feelings. If you ever need to talk to someone about anything, I am here. I have more time on my hands now.
How I wish Goteth was here...I'm sure he'd be better at words of comfort...he's always been there for us...even if not physically, he will always be with us spiritually. You're not alone either...you can count on that, my friend.
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