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*beats my head into a wall*
if you dont want my opinions or suggestions...DON'T ASK. if you already know the end result for your question and my input will obviously change nothing or even get a second notice....DON'T ASK.
do whatever makes you happy! all you hafta say is "we are gonna do (insert whatever here)" and then ask if i wanna join! if i say no, it won't be the end of the world! but dont say "any suggestions on what to do?" and then completely IGNORE everything i say! that makes it 10000 times worse to feel like i went thru all that thought and effort for NO reason! you don't hafta choose any of my suggestions...but for GODS sake...at least leave me with the feeling that it was even given a half moments consideration! I try to do it for everyone else! If I fall short sometimes, i apologize! call me on it!
*screams and goes back to whatever i was doing before*
if you dont want my opinions or suggestions...DON'T ASK. if you already know the end result for your question and my input will obviously change nothing or even get a second notice....DON'T ASK.
do whatever makes you happy! all you hafta say is "we are gonna do (insert whatever here)" and then ask if i wanna join! if i say no, it won't be the end of the world! but dont say "any suggestions on what to do?" and then completely IGNORE everything i say! that makes it 10000 times worse to feel like i went thru all that thought and effort for NO reason! you don't hafta choose any of my suggestions...but for GODS sake...at least leave me with the feeling that it was even given a half moments consideration! I try to do it for everyone else! If I fall short sometimes, i apologize! call me on it!
*screams and goes back to whatever i was doing before*