Just venting....
This entry is not intended for any one specific person or persons, if you feel it implies to you, feel free to let me know and we can discuss it as civil adults should. Or you can leave me a little comment and not post your name as some people feel they should, because we live in a society full of children.
I believe i realize, as many people in this world have, that sometimes life can be really fucked up, and people can be really fucked up. People say things that they do not necessarily mean and do things that most often should or should not be done. That is what life is, that is how life goes. I find that everyone woul dbe better off if certain measures were taking in the time of such events. A. Get over it. If something was/wasn't said or done, there is usually a logical explaination. B. Confront the problem or source. Sort things out, make things right. Rather than let everything dwell, let it out. I suppose those two would be the best possible solutions with usually good outcomes.
Now that is just speaking from logic. But most people are not logical. They immediatly go into defense mode and begin a line of hatred for said person or problem. Yes, we have all done this. And it needs to stop. Most people do everything they can to eliviate the problem, just not in the right ways. Most of the time their way of eliviating the problem causes a loss. I am not able to explain what type of loss it is, because all situations are different. But it is a loss none the less.
And so I say to anyone who suffers these consiquences, re-read what I have written and chose your path. It is up to you.
I believe i realize, as many people in this world have, that sometimes life can be really fucked up, and people can be really fucked up. People say things that they do not necessarily mean and do things that most often should or should not be done. That is what life is, that is how life goes. I find that everyone woul dbe better off if certain measures were taking in the time of such events. A. Get over it. If something was/wasn't said or done, there is usually a logical explaination. B. Confront the problem or source. Sort things out, make things right. Rather than let everything dwell, let it out. I suppose those two would be the best possible solutions with usually good outcomes.
Now that is just speaking from logic. But most people are not logical. They immediatly go into defense mode and begin a line of hatred for said person or problem. Yes, we have all done this. And it needs to stop. Most people do everything they can to eliviate the problem, just not in the right ways. Most of the time their way of eliviating the problem causes a loss. I am not able to explain what type of loss it is, because all situations are different. But it is a loss none the less.
And so I say to anyone who suffers these consiquences, re-read what I have written and chose your path. It is up to you.