its not that complicated...
isnt a part of loving someone respecting their wishes, even if their wish is just to be left alone for that moment? it seems to me that if something is bothering me and i just need to deal with it on my own, that the person who contantly says they love me, would want to respect me and leave me alone and let me work things out the way i need to. not repeatedly keep asking whats bothering me and wanting to know because they care. i assured you i wasnt upset with you and that it was personal and i didnt want to discuss it. if you said the same to me, i would respect you enough to just say i love you and you can call me when you are ready. i sure as hell would not keep pressing the issue knowing it is just making things worse for me. i guess we just have totally different views on what love is.