ladder theory
stolen from flyingfaeries
i saw this one way back, but it's still an amusing read the third and fourth time around...
http://intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
one variant i was thinking about... how does the other person having a similar name factor in? so if your name is christine, would you never consider being with a guy named christopher? or michael/michelle, or jody, leslie, or if you had any one of a number of those gender-ambiguous names?
i saw this one way back, but it's still an amusing read the third and fourth time around...
http://intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
one variant i was thinking about... how does the other person having a similar name factor in? so if your name is christine, would you never consider being with a guy named christopher? or michael/michelle, or jody, leslie, or if you had any one of a number of those gender-ambiguous names?