Nov 08, 2008 01:35
In my opinion everyone needs someone who can understand, respect, and support them. Everyone needs someone who is going to care for and love them unlike no other person can. Everyone deserves someone who will support you and help you in times of need. Everyone needs someone that will help take care of them when they are sick. I believe this is what a person needs in order to have a good relationship with his or her partner.
Granted there are a lot of other things that need to be in this relationship,but without the above things I don't think the relationship will last that long either.Everyone deserves to have someone that treats him or her like a king or queen.Maybe I'm living in a wonderland, but who are you to tell me I am wrong.
Now you may ask "why is she writing about this?" My answer to that question is due to the fact that one of my friends stated that he wanted a best friend relationship.My question to him was do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship or best friend relationship.He stated that he wanted something more than a sexual relationship,because that's how his last boyfriend/girlfriend relationships have been. I then began to explain to him that is why a "relationship" should be based on the above items along with much more.
Sometimes I believe we as humans say that we are dating someone because we want to be included in society when we honestly should say that we are having a sexual relationship with someone. We as human beings do not want to admit to someone that we do not honestly love them. Humans want everyone to believe that we love them,and that we are better than the guy or girl standing next to us. That is why I believe many humans do not want to admit to the fact that they are having a sexual relationship, because they do not want someone telling them that is wrong.
I believe that there is someone for everyone,but do we,humans, honestly need to lie to people and tell them that we love them. I mean think about it...do you really love everyone in this world? I think we all need to think about things before we say them. Remember next time you are seeing someone...do you want a relationship that could lead to marriage or are you just in it for the sex?