Back to normal.

[barbles]

SINGLE IT IS!

Comments

[ephah]

:( Please don't tell me it was over the sex stuff. He sounded so wonderful :-/ ((HUGS))

[barbles]

No, it was over the fact that he still had a dating profile on OkCupid and was logged in aLL THE FLIPPING TIME msging girls (which he doesn't know I know he was doing). Then I reactivated mine and went and looked at his, told him it bothered me and he said that since I reactivated my profile, he didnt want to date a woman who would do something hurtful like having a dating profile.

[cakemaven]

so basically, he want to shift the guilt to you for HIS bad behavior. sounds to me like you're better off without him.

[barbles]

I am. completely even if it hurts.

[crushdmb]

He also sounds like a hypocritical asshole who wants to play around, but won't let her.

SO glad you found this out now, Barbs. More than likely he would have cheated, eventually.

[ephah]

What a hypocrite. Why do men think they can have a double standard in a relationship? It's ok for them to stray and cheat, but the moment the women makes one move that they regard as cheating, they leave. Stupid boy.

[barbles]

You know, because he's a man. I called him on his crap, so he had to turn it around and make me feel bad. And I did! I apologized for being insecure then I realized how stupid I was because I SAW THE MESSAGES.

[dstroy]

pffff... lame. MUCH better off without him.

[barbles]

I know I am! It doesn't make it hurt less to be deceived, but sadly, I am pretty used to it at this point in my life.

[redemptionsongs]

w.t.f? Sorry Barb :(

[barbles]

Don't be sorry! Better I found out now rather than later. I do not need a guy who does that, connection or not, and then gives me CRAP for checking it out and discovering his indiscretions.