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ok, first things first, im only using this horrible website to inform people about some things that should be spoken about. (by the way, im sure you know that this website is designed to ruin peoples lives). im not playing favorites, im not taking sides, im just trying to put some things into perspective. alot of us have gone/go to carmel high school and most of us know each other, maybe not personally but enough to wave to or say high to at shows or passing by. whatever "scene" there is in carmel, im sure people know what goes on or going on in other peoples lives. now im pretty sure people have the right to a private life and to talk about things amongst their friends. people talk about others. thats how life goes. and anything thats taken second hand or is overheard and spread around can be a strong weapon. anyways, i was always under the impression that a scene is like a community, a gathering of friends or people that have common interests and views on subjects, and like to play music. and if someone had differing opinions, thats their business and as long as they dont throw it in other peoples faces or offend others, its their business. i feel like there is no real music scene in carmel. i also feel that personally, it is hard to hang out with different groups people because of everyones differing opinions. i feel that people are in danger of saying something wrong thats gonna hurt someone else. i hope that i wont ever have to feel that way. but i know some people who will bite their tongue in fear of hurting others as well as themselves. and i know that people have more than one group of good friends, and those 2 groups might not get along but it shouldnt keep anyone from spending time with their friends. and it shouldnt ruin frtiendships. weve all known each other for years and strong friendships have been made, ones that should be kept for years in the future but are now threatened by peoples personal problems. im not saying that you cant have enemies or dislike anyone else but please take into consideration that your friends may be friends with your enemies. but that shouldnt ruin your friendship with them. that probably sounds confusing but i just want to say that i have no problems with anyone as long as they dont fuck with my life and my friendships. too bad things arent simpler.