It would be super cool if people learned to take their own advice and not slander other people publicly. I mean, if you're hurt and angry it's justified to feel that way. No one can tell you not to feel emotions, but you can be the bigger person and not go around spreading rumors and stories about someone to people who aren't involved in the situation. Isn't that what you've been trying to avoid? People getting involved that shouldn't? Keeping it between the two people it's about? Because it just seems like the opposite is happening here...