Food for Thought

Mar 16, 2009 22:28

A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised, and proud man, who is fully dressed each  morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and  shaved  perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.

His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.

After  many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled  sweetly when told his room was ready.

As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description  of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.

"I love it," he stated with  the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just  been  presented with a new puppy.

"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."

"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.

"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.

"Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture  is  arranged .... it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it.

"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a  choice; I can  spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with  the parts of my body that no  longer work, or get out of  bed and be thankful  for the ones that do.

"Each day is a gift, and as  long as my eyes open, I'll  focus on the new  day  and all  the happy memories I've stored away.  Just for this time in my  life."

Old age is like a bank  account.
You withdraw from what you've put in.

So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of  memories!

Thank you for your part in filling
my Memory Bank.

I am still  depositing.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:  
  1.   Free your heart from hatred.  
  2.   Free your mind from worries.  
  3.   Live simply.  
  4.   Give more.  
  5.   Expect less.

Have a nice day, unless you already have other plans.

Just an email I received.

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