I'm Ok with this
mini-update on Jon.
I think I can figure out how to be OK if we break up. I think that he and I are rational enough types of people to be able to look somewhat objectively at our compatability, and honest enough to admit where we fall short. I am not making any predictions, but I do think it is becoming clearer to both of us where we do not see eye to eye, so to speak. I can imagine us saying to one another, and not just me to him, or vice versa, "honey, i care for you, and enjoy being around you, but i just don't think this is going to work." at the moment, i can also see myself becoming something of a friend-mentor to Jon. last night he told me that at times he feels like a kid around me, and that he thinks he can learn from me. i don't think i am comfortable with the reverse in gender roles. is there actually anything wrong with it?
I think I can figure out how to be OK if we break up. I think that he and I are rational enough types of people to be able to look somewhat objectively at our compatability, and honest enough to admit where we fall short. I am not making any predictions, but I do think it is becoming clearer to both of us where we do not see eye to eye, so to speak. I can imagine us saying to one another, and not just me to him, or vice versa, "honey, i care for you, and enjoy being around you, but i just don't think this is going to work." at the moment, i can also see myself becoming something of a friend-mentor to Jon. last night he told me that at times he feels like a kid around me, and that he thinks he can learn from me. i don't think i am comfortable with the reverse in gender roles. is there actually anything wrong with it?