So I'm putting together an "It Gets Better" playlist of sorts for
fanmix. I went to PSC to ask for suggestions and someone said 'Fuck You' by Lily Allen... so, of course, I looked it up to see if it followed my theme.
I mean, while it did... it didn't. And I was sort of offended by it.
It encompassed part of what the It Gets Better Project is about: the effect that hatred has on the lgbt community. Well... it's a response to that hatred, anyway.
Here's the video so you can listen to it (WHY IS IT SO DAMN CATCHY???)
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Now, while I understand the purpose of it... I have to say I do NOT approve of the message it sends. Let's take a look at the lyrics.
Look inside
Look inside your tiny mind
Now look a bit harder
Cause we're so uninspired, so sick and tired of all the hatred you harbor
Now, that last line, I can agree with: we're all tired of the hatred. Accusing someone of having a tiny mind? Yeah, I can see it, depending on what they've expressed.
So you say
It's not okay to be gay
Well I think you're just evil
You're just some racist who can't tie my laces
Your point of view is medieval
Okay, now... "I think you're just evil"... what kind of message is that sending? Just because someone is homophobic, they're automatically on the same level as Satan (I'm using the figure though I don't believe in him)? Doesn't that seem kind of extreme? And how is homophobia racism? Can someone explain that to me? Now, the point of view being medieval, yeah, I'll drink to that.
Fuck you
Fuck you very, very much
Cause we hate what you do
And we hate your whole crew
So please don't stay in touch
Fuck you
Fuck you very, very much
Cause your words don't translate
And it's getting quite late
So please don't stay in touch
Okay, so we're 'sick of the hatred they harbor,' yet we're giving them a big ol' "fuck you"? And saying we hate their whole crew? Why are we battling hate with hate, here? Doesn't that seem a little counterproductive?
Do you get
Do you get a little kick out of being slow minded?
You want to be like your father
It's approval you're after
Well that's not how you find it
Do you
Do you really enjoy living a life that's so hateful?
Cause there's a hole where your soul should be
Your losing control of it and it's really distasteful
Okay, we're back to talking about them being hateful... go back to the chorus and note my statement about it being counterproductive.
Chorus again.
Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you,
Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you,
Fuck you
You know, I personally view "fuck you" as words of intense anger or hate....
You say, you think we need to go to war
Well you're already in one,
Cause its people like you
That need to get slew
No one wants your opinion
WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH! Suddenly slaying homophobes is the best way? And why don't we want their opinion? They're human as well... just because we don't like their opinion doesn't make it any less of one.
And then the rest of the song is the chorus and more "fuck you"s. Real deep shit.
Final thoughts: Overall, I do appreciate Lily Allen helping to give voice to the LGBT community... but I still say battling hate with hate isn't the best way. We preach and preach about the hatred and discrimination we suffer through... can we honestly expect change by throwing it back at them? Are we animals?
Okay. I've said my peace.
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